are you married??
By taqwa9487
@taqwa9487 (24)
United States
January 31, 2007 9:06pm CST
are you married or single?? if your not married what are you views and outlooks on marriage?? do you feel as though marriage is right for you or is right at all?? do you feel as though a person should marry the person they love?? or is marriage not the answer?? elaborate.....
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25 responses
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I am Happily Married. I will be Married 8 yrs. in 2 weeks. The things that bothers me most with Marriage, is people tend to take it too lightly, and people have lost the Respect and such Marriage was intentionally designed for. Some seem to think if it does not work move on to someone else, and to only end up really mess up things even worse. I feel Marriage needs to get back to where it was designed for, and allow God in it to take control. And I Married the man God intended for me, as the day I met my husband God told me that I would would meet the one I was supposed to be with that day, and I also feel if you marry someone for something other than Love you have lost the real meaning of what marriage is and should be.
@taqwa9487 (24)
• United States
7 Feb 07
i honestly couldnt agree with you ant more you have a very deep view on the subject and i respect that. but you know what another thing is, its the fact that people also take it lightely when children are involved, i feel like children shouldnt be raised in a single parent home. do you agree?
@traceyleeappel (510)
• Australia
4 Feb 07
I been married for 9 years here and still very much in love and get stronger by the day
@CountryKittie (13)
• Australia
5 Feb 07
I'm currently with a long term partner (10 years) and lately I've been feeling the urge to get married. When I was 20 I didn't want to, just ran with the "its just a bit of paper" argument but now all my friends are getting engaged, married and having kids I'm feeling the pressure.
My lovely BF was going to propose just before Christmas when we went camping but I guessed it was going to happen and he didn't. He REALLY wants it to be a surprise when it does happen.
I guess I'll just go with the flow. We're very happy the way we are now so ther is no rush to tie the knot.
@sanjudear (142)
• India
1 Feb 07
Hai iam not married i think marriying a person whom we love is really a luck and unexprssable feeling that we feel and elderly things also tell that "marriages are made in heaven".
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@niggard_tere (214)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
so far im not yet married but i have plan to do so. I feel that its just right anyway man and woman should undergo those process and ofcourse it's up to you if you'll marry the person you love.
But if you really wanna enjoy the quality and sacredty of marriege. Marry the one you love.
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@Tanushree4444 (1275)
• India
5 Feb 07
i am not married but i am committed, that is, i am engaged. my view about marriage is that its a beautiful bond between two. its a bond which everyone should experience once in a lifetime.
@cassiem0221 (274)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Hello, and welcome to mylot! I am happily married and have 3 children. I will have #4 in a few months. We are very happily married and very much in love. I adore my husband. He's a funny guy and very high spirited. He's a great provider and loving father. Couldn't really ask for much more. We have times that we struggle, especially since we had our youngest baby, now 10 months. He was born with special needs and that always puts stress in your life but for the most part, it is great. We work through everything and spend lots of family time together and LOVE IT! All marriages will have their ups and downs, the thing is to learn to talk to each other and work through the rough times!
@taqwa9487 (24)
• United States
7 Feb 07
thanks for the comment i have been married about a year itll be a year in 10 days i cant wait but you are right about what you said about the good times and bad times i know all about it.
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I think that people should take some time to really get to know each other before they get married. In fact, as far as i'm concerned, if it is possible to do so, a couple should even live together for a year or two before they get married. I mean, even though you may be compatible and love each other very much when you are not together 24/7, you may find that living together changes things, and it would be better to find tha tout before getting married, than to get married and then have to go through divorce. I also think that too many people get married when they are sitll feeling the glow of a new relationship, not realizing that they may feel very different when that period of time passes. So to me, waiting seems like a good thing. Feeling sure of the relationship first. I think that more couples would stay together if they tried this.
@garetamor (55)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
im happily married. in marriage, love is not only factor to be considered if you want to marry the person. you should be ready to embrace everything about the person most especially when he is at his worst state.
@smartlubana (155)
• India
5 Feb 07
no i m single, and i hav not plan to marry for the 5 years more.
@city_girl (10)
• United States
19 Feb 07
I am very happily married! I feel like it is absolutely right for me - it is a source of joy daily for us. And marrying the person I love is the best move I ever made. :)
@wifey4life (58)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I have been married for eight happy months. We have had our share of problems, but if I had to do it over again, I would.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
5 Feb 07
i am married for 9 years now. There are both positives and negatives to it. Positives a very loving and caring husband. Negaitves a not so good relationship with my sister in law. Conclusion life would be just too dull without marrriage and a person to love.
@samraf (725)
• India
5 Feb 07
well i am not married nor decided when i am planning to be in this relationship but belive me its not an easy one...
one has to be very much attentive and very well settled else this relationship could become hell for your whole life and then you will be having bad impact of marriage and everything,,
ALthough its an very much gud relation to be with but still its very special to get married specially with whom you thing you can live easily and honestly ..
but get money just to make your marriage succesfull else forget it .
REgards,
Sam
@angelastreit (287)
• United States
5 Feb 07
My husband and I have been married over 2 years and have a baby girl. I love being married,being a mother, and being a wife for everyone to know. I don't think that if I didn't have my husband than I wouldn't be complete. My husband is the love of my life and when I married him it was not just because I loved him its because I am in love with him. Marriage is different for everyone. It depends on who a person is.
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I was married three years ago. I am now engaged. we have plans on getting married, but i don't wantta rush into anything just yet.