how far its good to keep extra marital affairs?

I don't think it's a good idea to have extra maritial affairs.I can't understand people that want to have a open marriage....to me it just hurts to think that my partner is with someone else.Plus I thimk it instills the wrong values into a child.

u would never like to go that way

i think extra martial affairs are not good. be honest for one person . its affect your child .

if the partner is not able to give u company,support u you in mental and physical manner both then a person due to lack of attension and emotional understanding move out in search of all these requirements and get attracted. and even some time it happens when oppsite sexes are together for a long a time.like office collegues create a type of attraction. having an extra marital affair is not a cheating to ur partner but its kinda cheating to yourself. if you cant get through with ur partner well then its better to part ways.also it lays bad impact on your children too.