Males in GENERAL
By funkygal14
@funkygal14 (53)
Canada
February 1, 2007 1:50am CST
Why do guys always try to hide everything from females? If you need help why can't you just tell us and not us trying to figure out what is bothering you. Why do you make it so complicated to even think that we love them? Don't be afraid of our feelings
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4 responses
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
15 Feb 07
This is the basic difference between the two genders, so leave them alone they will sort out their problems themselves. Read this book Men are from mars and women from venus, then only you will understand that it is their normal way of behaving, not telling feelings and sharing.
@jenalyn (675)
• United States
15 Feb 07
That is a good book. I am glad I was in my 20's when I read it. It helped me understand a great deal about my relationship with my father and so far every man that I have had a relationship. I definitely think this book is full of great information. I think the best piece of information I still remember and have had to remind myself of everyday is
Men are problem solvers and when want them to just listen, you have to tell them that is all you want. Then you can actually get them to hear you and be a shoulder insead of a problem solver.
It does talk about them and their way of communicating. I think I will give it to my daughter when she becomes a young adult.
@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
8 Mar 07
It is usually not the feelings of the female that the male is worried about.We are told right from the start that men are logical and women are emotional.To show emotion therefore was a sign of weakness and would reflect on us being " manly".And we can't have our image tarnished!
@arjunfour (128)
• India
1 Feb 07
I think you have got it all wrong maam.. It is the females who hide everything from the males. they are more ready to share their thoughts to their female friends rather than telling it to their hubby or to their dad or even their mom for that matter. So please think well before writing something about the whole guys population
