i need some advice

First of all, if you are 6 months pregnant with quads, you are an extremely high risk pregnancy and shouldn't be cleaning houses. Fibromyalgia is a treatable condition, there are medications and therapy available, you're husband needs to get some treatment. And with or without treatment, there are lots of jobs you can do perfectly well with fibromyalgia, my best friend, mom and SIL all suffer from it and all are gainfully employed. When you are in business, you need to tell people up front how much your services are going to cost. Most housecleaners charge a flat rate, I personally would never pay hourly for that, that would just encourage them to work slowly in my opinion. Screaming at her is very unprofessional, and a sure way to never see a penny. If you had called her and nicely explained the check bounced, you may have had better luck. In the future, for this or any other work you do, have a cash only policy, checks are just asking for trouble. Also, give an accurate quote for your work up front and avoid screaming at clients.

Well definately dont work for her anymore, she sounds like a hateful person. I am not sure what you could do about it though, other than suing her. Find something else, someone who will actually pay you for your work.

You should not be on your feet cleaning at all. You ARE a high risk pregnancy on top of a high risk pregnncy! Seriously youre doctor should have put you on bed rest by now. And if that woman thinks you can clean a house in 1 day being pregnant 4 times over at once, she is out of her mind

hi there you should go and seek legal help about this! do you mean the cheque bounced as in came back fake or it wouldn't cash in? maybe go to the citizens advice bureau and they will advise and try to help you on what to do next!

First of all, maybe it wasn't a good idea to scream at her. You have her check, don't you have an option to keep on trying to cash it? She'll end up with the fees won't she? Can't you report her to the cops? I'm so sorry everything seems to be bad for you right now, I am sure things can only get better. Find out if there are any help you can get since you will be having quads.

I would take her check directly to the prosecuting attorney--if your state has a hot check law. I gotta say that I would hound her just like a debt collector. You earned that money and she needs to fork it over. It is really sad that people out there take advantage of others this way. I am sorry this happened to you.

I think you are taking up a big risk by accepting jobs like that in the first palce.You should know that being pregnant 6 months you are risking yourself and your child and you should not work for her anymore that's it.Try to find a legal advice from some good person.

It's so sad that mothers hae to deal with this, I think there should be more mothers' rights

Just a quick little bit of advice for you when the babies come. I know it is kinda off topic..but speaking of money being tight...you may just be happy to hear this. If you call Pampers, Huggies and such (do a internet seach for parents of multiples) they will provide you with a ton of really great free stuff for the babbies. Most times you just have to show proof of birth. My friend had twins and Pampers shipped her 4 BIG boxes of Newborn Diapers and wipes and such... Same goes for other companies as well. Hope this helps! I also hope that everything is ok with your husband! Hang in there :D

Well, first - it's standard that a house-cleaning job gets done in less than a day. If you thought it would have taken longer you should have been up front about it. We have cleaners come in once a week and I would fire them if it took too long, so she is right in that regard. If you can't handle a job then don't do it or expect troubles like this. Regarding the bounced check, it sounds like you need to take her to small claims court. Regardless of how long it took you you should still have been paid unless she signed a contract saying you will take so many hours to complete the job.

can I help you?

she,s is some kinda hatred personality & i think u should fight her 4 ur right.u,ve 2 take ur money 4rm her...

what for u need the advice please tell me in short not he long story as mentioned yaar as all are very busy. do not get angry as i only just say opposite to what other say.

You most definitely need to demand to be paid for the full time you worked. That is BS. You need the money. It's not like you are sitting in luxury. Demand your money. Good luck!

First of all Congratulations on quads at 46 Well Done I hope all goes well for you all :) With you Cleaning question I think you shouldn't have called and yelled at her that would have just made the situation worse but in your condition I can understand why you would have... Do you work through a company? if so maybe get them to contact her... Otherwise speak to her Nicely about the situation and work something out... And Lastly I don't think it is very adviseable that you are even working at this stage in pregnancy with quads you are putting yourself and babies in jeppardy, Go and speak to somebody who may be able to help you out finacially or social services or something. What are you going to do once you have the babies? you will need help! I wish you the Best of Luck with Everything :)

She sounds to be a very rude and impolite person. Dont work for her anymore. And from now on make sure you cross check for whom you work and what is their behavior.

Take the check and the insufficent funds letter from the bank and go straight to the DA's office and file it. Because if she does it to you she will do it to others or has already. You did the women a good job , treated her fairly on the price , then she screws you by only paying 1 day, then to top it off the check is bad. No mercy is called for here.

all of you do , you was get work from people not your family , if she said you was wrong , you are wrong at this time.. and at this time , she can judge you everything she think she is right.. so.. work with someone isn't the way to get success way.. u must have an idea to build your own work , don't be afraid about your life..

well thats easy! take her to coart! from what you say here you will totally win. she sounds like a real "female dog" too. i feel bad for ya .

Big Hugs to you and I am so sorry your going thru this. Never work for this lady again. I suggest maybe typing up a contract to be signed before the work, in that they agree to the fee you state, and that if the chck bounces they are to pay NSF fees and legal fess if any. That way you have a paper trail that can stand up in court, and you can make your own contracts~!Let me know if I can help you in anyway! Thats so sad she took advantage of you!More gentle Hugs!