is love possible with a girl who is elder to the boy?
By radesh
@radesh (694)
India
36 responses
@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
As long as the girl is no more than 4 years older than the boy... it does not matter.
It is actually good for a young man to have an older girl as she will teach him to stay in the right track and prevent him to make mistakes.
But if you marry a girl 5 years or more... older than you... you risk having problems later on in life... when she reach 40 or 45.
Those problems can be from both sides. She will either feel insecure by you being younger than her... or you will feel that she is too old for you. Men in general... develop an appetite for younger women when they reach 40. Most of them don't get the opportunity... but all of them look for it.
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@hitzphillygirl (1235)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Of course it's fine. As long as they love each other and mature enough to handle it, what's the problem? Age is just a number. It's the maturity that matters.
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@sushanth007 (143)
• India
13 Feb 07
i think its good when u love a girl who is not elder but if u love a girl who is elder there will be no problem but u should be very strong to face the world.
@rajivkumar900 (9861)
• India
12 Feb 07
if girl is older 4 or 5 year then its right otherwise above 5 years its wrong.
@Tanushree4444 (1275)
• India
12 Feb 07
well true and pure love does not count age in between it. age should not be a factor at all. so there is no harm even if the girl is elder to the boy
@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Love knows no boundaries. The only problem couples who have huge age gaps are what other people will think. And it's also a moral issue. It's ok if the girl was older by 3 years or less but if the gap is like Donald Trump and his wife with an age gap of 24. Surely, as a person you know it's not because of love that they are together. Let's not kid ourselves.
@davaoguy (319)
• United States
12 Feb 07
True love has no boundaries or conditions. As they say age doesn't matter, as long as both persons love each other dearfully. There can be some age-related issues that may arise, but any problems will be resolved later on with their love and affection for each other. I see nothing wrong with it, as long as both are of legal age!
@sisan76 (43)
• Singapore
12 Feb 07
I am older than my husband and I see nothing wrong with it.
Two years older. When it comes to the matters of the heart age is not a factor.
@preetshweety (1046)
• India
5 Feb 07
I dont think age is a bar between 2 hearts. U can luv any1 u cant stop any1 from loving any1. When u like some1, u dont care for her gae, her nationality, her caste or language or religion, u just see her n her Heart. then y u r against loving a person elder to u? I think u should change ur mind n accept wat the reality is.
@raveemenon (1071)
• India
4 Feb 07
physical attraction alone is not the key to love as such ag doesnot matters. Elderly girls are more matured and wonderful too.do not have any prejudice.
@cultoffury (1283)
• India
4 Feb 07
It depends upon how mature both parties are. Even if age difference is there but if they are reasonably at the same maturity level I don't think there is any problem. It's all about compatibility. Mostly age difference of 2-3 years can be overlooked. These are only my concepts, may not be true.
@xiayifeng (560)
• China
4 Feb 07
As is known to all,impossible is nothing.And in fact,why can't one love a girl who is elder than hem? All of us cannot found a true reason! Love doesnot mind age and other unimportant things such as family and money!