i am stressed i bodged up..

I feel you are a really good person just like me and you were only trying to help him. I sure know how you feel and what you are going through. You and I are not useless. We are very helpful when you stop and think about it. I'm not computer savvy either. I am not dumb though LOL. He married you for you. I wish I could get that in my head too. You are worthy but you and I just don't seem to see it.

well please do not take it other wise but my views are a little different .. let me explain you .. no matter how much a person earns he/she can always remain sad , if he/she wants , looking at others who earn more than him/her .. on the other hand no matter how less you earn you can always be happy .. You know what is the best part of your relationship .. you people still care for each other .. You cry when you feel that you are not able to help him .. he comes straight back to home after a day's hard work .. you know why .. just because your presence is enough for him to feel relaxed .. Actually what happens when relationship is as close one as husbnad and wife .. we sometimes forget appreciating and making other realize how much he/she matters to them ..because we think that other must already be knowing that .. but at times it becmoes necessary to express the feelings .. just one sentense of appreciation will change or rather reset your mindset which is just a little diverted and it is too very usual .. so be happy .you are the luckiest one I think .. because not all women in world have their husband back at home after a day;s work .. congratulations

Hey what is this?The people like us are fighters.After you finish crying stand up clean your eyes put at your face the best smile and when your hubby come give him a kiss and ask him why he married you.Maybe him answer surprise you.

you should be optimistic and patience

Hey be relaxed! he mite busy or having some work

pray to God, refeltect on your things, and get a life.

awee please don't feel like that , we are all good at something . cheer up and smile xx

Just take a ddep breath, maybe even take a little nap and/pr have a bite to eat

Hey hey what the heck are you doing? It done now you must move on and continue helping your hubby. Things happen its life everything cannot be perfect how boring would that be? Stay positive.

Oh Honey, don't beat yourself up over this. You had good intentions and everyone makes mistakes. I'm sure your husband will understand. I get down on myself sometimes, too. The important thing is to find something positive about yourself and focus on that. {{{hugs}}} I hope you feel better soon.

Ok deep breath. calm down. take a step back. look at the problem again. Can you solve it now? If not dont worry too much. Just give him a big hug n kiss, n tell him how much you love him. Everything will work out just fine.

I can truly understand your situation.You were trying to help him.you are very worthy to him.May be the situation would get better if you both mutually discuss the issue.

omg

Calm down and take a deep breath. You need to go and have acup of tea, text him and tell him whats happened. He will be able to sort it out and see fi he can't then don't stress. What's done is done. Maybe after you've chilled out everything will be a bit clearer. You need a giggle!

it's difficult when we felt neglected. when one tries to reach out for his/her partner and yet, you seem to not exist at all. i hope you can talk to your husband. share your feelings towards him. don't be afraid to open up. it's your privilage as a wife to speak out. it's nice of you to help your husband. and i hope he recognizes your efforts, too.

hey, just take it easy, relax. looks to me that you're just experiencing menopausal symptoms. i am, too. and i know how impatient and how short-tempered we could be at this stage. so, don't let the mood swings get the better of you. take a little time off in between, breathe deeply, walk around in the garden and maybe play for a while with the dogs. what i do when i feel it coming, i sing and dance. when i start perspiring, i'd have felt better. do it, too. it might help.

It would be hard living in different countries. Maybe you should just tell him how you feel and that you're sorry. But also don't run yourself down or cry too much to him, in my experience guys get annoyed with that if it happens too much. Just tell him you love and miss him and you're finding it hard being apart.

go out for a few minutes and get a breath of fresh air to clear your head. Don't punish yourself for just a small piece of crap. THere are far better things to break down on.

im glad that you have still the time to help your hubby and i appreciate it for your thoughfullness on him...just relax ok...and be calmed dont rush on things..which in your power you cant really achieved...just ask your hubby why was his phone is of and that your just concern of him..

wel..dont push yourself too hard...take a sip of tea...