moving on... its my mothers death anniversary
@jeraldanmarie (472)
Philippines
February 2, 2007 1:17am CST
3 years ago my mother died of multiple organ failure, its fatal on our part for we just knew the illness 24 hours before she died. I thought I was able to moved on since last year but now I felt the loneliness and emptiness in my heart, on feb 4 is the 3rd death anniversary of my mom. I missed her so much, if only she's here to help me in my problems am facing recently, I miss her unconditional love, I miss her laughter and for being possitive in life. please pray for the soul of my mom, and for me too, to be able to move on to life....writing this at this very moment am crying for I thought am that strong yet I still need my mom beside me
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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2 Feb 07
i feel for you in your loss, i lost my own mother 17 years ago and never a day goes by without me thinking about her and missing her terribly. All i can suggest to you on these special days is use them to celebrate her life and all those special moments you shared together.
In many ways uif you keep her memory alive she is near you and this will help you move on. You will always take her with you and enjoy your memories, it is your laughter and joy that is her biggest gift to you, carry that inheritence with you and make your life a credit to thislady who gave you birth
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
I'm so sorry for your loss. Everyone needs their mom, and it's so hard to lose a family member.
I'm sure you're moving on in a strong way, but remembering your mom is good, too.
@vinu123 (224)
• India
3 Feb 07
oh my god that so sad hearing that from u. hey man u are in love i think u should
go & tell her straightaway to her that u love her so much.
as far as i am concerned i feel so man.
@cultoffury (1283)
• India
2 Feb 07
I am almost in tears reading that. Everyone love their parents, even I have a few friends who have the same fate as you. I pity them. I will surely pray for her. May her soul rest in peace. And you please cheer up. She is only physically parted, she's will live forever in your heart. If you try you can always talk to her, get her support, laughter everything. I am not just saying this to console you, but it's true.
@jeraldanmarie (472)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
yeah I still feel her presence in our lives...maybe am just so emotional today. thanks
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I'm sorry you are in so much pain. It's hard when we lose someone so close to us. In time you will remember the good things and her smile...etc. I lost my grandfather within 48 hours. My father passed when I was young so grandpa was like a father to me. That was 20 years ago. Grandma still lives in the same house. Whenever I go get her something from the garage, I have a little chat with him and walk out smiling. I will pray for you and mom...her spirit is beside you :)
@jeraldanmarie (472)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
thanks it help my emotion lightens,and cheers me up knowing someone here cares
@manmaxman (850)
• India
3 Feb 07
i pray for her and i m sorry about ur mom , i know mom plays an improtant roll in our life . we dont love our father that much that we love our mother
@nilzerous1 (2434)
• India
3 Feb 07
I lost my father only six months ago. I can feel what are going on in your mind. My friends told me, everything will be OK after two to four months, time being the best healer. But no, for me I'm yet to overcome the pain of loosing him. He was my Guru in life. And I think it is really difficult to coup up with such a situation. But we have to, we have to move on. This is the way of life. I pray for the soul of your Mom. And above all I still believe that "Nothing can seperate soul, nothing can put to sleep the holy spirit." My father and your Mom are still alive in the form of the sweet memory associated with them.
@delaney36 (817)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
I can relate to how you feel. I lost my mom 10 years ago and yet I still miss her so much until now. But life has to go on for us. Just remember, your mom would not want you to be unhappy and remain sad all the time. Move on and think how happy your mom will be at your accomplishments now. Those thoughts is what keeps me going.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Oh honey, I am so sorry, and I feel for you. I lost my mother and father and brother. The pain is very deep.
Lord in heaven, please wrap your wings of comfort and peace around feraldanmarie, and help her to deal with this loss. Give her your love and peace please. Thank you in Jesus's name, amen.
Please know that your mom is not gone, only in the flesh. She is with you every day in her new spirit body. She will never leave you. God bless, M&M
@runsgame (2031)
• India
3 Feb 07
hi jerald. thanks for a nice discussion . of course i too feel the moments you are missing . my rememberance always for the loved ones. When my granfather who loved me much passed away , i don't think there will be any other person who felt so sad other than me. still his laugh, his voice and his look is appearing on my eyes with tears. thanks for the old rememberance
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Feb 07
i know how you felt towards your mom..but you have to move on and think that shes still there with you in spirit..all of us will die..but on the different time...its just that shes the one who goes in first...anyway ill just pray for her soul that she mayhave eternal peace in heaven..
@white_snake (643)
• India
2 Feb 07
Dear mylot friend
Deaths and new lives are the natural phenomenon of the life.
I am saddened to read of the passing of your mother
I extend to you, and to all the bereaved family, my sincere sympathy and the traditional blessing of condolence –
May you not know of any sorrow in the future, but only goodness and benevolence be with you always.
Cordially,
@superbren (856)
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2 Feb 07
iot is a hard thing to go through , therre is no worse pain than losing your mother . i lost mine 5 years ago and she was a perfect person. she had a lung disease and my older sisters shielded me from the knowledge that her time was almost up . i didnt take it very seriously when she was unwell as my dad was ill too . however she had a massive heart attack and the shock was phenomenal . i felt so guilty that i had nt been a good daughter even though i was .i felt i should have known . i should have saved her or at least realised how ill she was. i changed after it and i dont think i will ever be the same person again.
@janmar (115)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Missing someone does not make you weak. Losing someone does not make you weak.
I lost my dad seven years ago and my mother three years ago and there are times that talking about them makes me cry.
Try talking to her. Quite often I find that I know the words she would say to me if she could and talking to her out loud brings the words to me as though she were there.
It is okay to miss her. Greif does not have a time limit put on it.
@weemam (13372)
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2 Feb 07
I can't even immagine what you are going through , My mum and dad both have Alzheimers and we dont know how long they will be here ( nobody can tell that) and although we now it has to happen we try not to think of it , My thoughts are with you at this sad time xxx
@sumonm26bd (737)
• Bangladesh
2 Feb 07
I pray for your passed mom.May god treat her soul with care.Don't mourn for her she'll live in your heart.
@JessieMae (345)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I will pray for you most definately. Just think..It's ok that you mourn over your mom..but don't get too much into it because your mom might not like you being sad on her part.
@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure it is an incredibly difficult time for you, but you have to remember time heals all wounds. As time passes you will be able to focus more on the quality time you spent with your mom and hopefully you will remember it with smiles instead of tears. I'll be thinking of you on the fourth. Just because you are sad does not mean that you are not strong...you are stronger now then you were before, you just don't realize it yet.
@monalizra (219)
• Romania
2 Feb 07
you made a first step to move on just by admitting you feelings. you probably tried to be possitive like you mother was but those feelings were just hidden.
is good to cry and admit you miss her.
remember that you are human after all, and this will just make you stronger. time will tell
if you feel is to hard for you why don't you try to go to a psychologist?... he will know what to do to make you feel better again and live with your memories
