what wud u do if u find ur spouse in a relationship with som1 else

first of all, only hearing doesn't prove someone guilty. so, bilali, i would ask you to find out the truth and then if you find him, her guilty reason with him/ her. i am sure that the thing would be sorted out. this is all if you know your spouse for long and have faith in him/ her. i think you should give benefit of doubt to the person, if its the first time. but if he/she is of that infidel tme, i think you should let him/ her go. donot be in a relationship where you will die each day. good luck

hi bilali, according to me most of the times, whatever we think is nt always true .So first of all u really have to know whtr he is really having an affair , if u r 100% sure then only go n ask the prsn directly , without beating around the bush..... Because tdy or tomm u have to face the situation so why nt now.....and a sol before it is too late.....

I would talk to him first of, and find out if this is really terue. Then, if it was, would need to know WHY. I do not think infidelity is necessarily the end of a relationship, - it depends on many things, and whether you think the relationship is worth saving.

i agree with the others. make SURE that your spouse is in another relationship. hearing this from friends (even the most trusted of friends) is NOT proof. believe it when you see it with your own eyes. if indeed your spouse is in another relationship...then i would get out of the marriage. the trust will be gone...completly, everything he/she does from then on will seem suspicious to you..even if it really isnt anything to worry about. you will still worry. when one partner is unfaithful, it changes everything. you will never quite believe anything they say anymore. some couples do get over and past cheating. but most dont. i cant imagine how much hard work it would take to be able to stay with a cheating spouse.