secret admirer on Valentine

@ruknaa (407)
India
February 2, 2007 7:10am CST
There is a girl in my office whom I secretly admire.... will it be wrong if I send her flowers annonymously on this valentine? the only conversation we had is "hi how do you do" on the corridors... although both of us smile during that brief 2 second interaction.... none of us has ever waited to hear the response to the question.
6 responses
preetshweety
@preetshweety (1046)
• India
8 Feb 07
Really that will work. Send her flowers and see d smile at her face that time, u will surely love to see taht. BEST OF LUCK for d same.
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ruknaa
@ruknaa (407)
• India
10 Feb 07
i will gather my courage to do that.... i hope it does not blow apart on my face
sadgirl_1958
@sadgirl_1958 (1088)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Speaking for a different perspective, I would be very uncomfortable getting flowers and not knowing who they were from. Given that, you may want to re-think the situation until you know each other a bit better and determine if this is someone who would welcome your gifts.
ruknaa
@ruknaa (407)
• India
13 Feb 07
i thought not telling who send her the flowers will make her wonder and curious. maybe then she will start noticing things and people which one often overlooks during a busy life
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ruknaa
@ruknaa (407)
• India
18 Feb 07
hidden notes is an interesting idea.... where all did you leave them?
sadgirl_1958
@sadgirl_1958 (1088)
• United States
18 Feb 07
Sometimes this may be the case, but she may also get a bit paranoid and wonder who is bothering her. I think best to be open and honest. Give her your best side and charm - if she likes you for it - then openly give a gift. She will appreciate ten times more. I know that when I was dating - I used to leave hidden notes for my boyfriend telling him how much I loved him, etc. He would find them sometimes weeks later.
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
i think you can do that but, i think it will not help if you will send it anonymously. just go and send her the flowers but put your name in it.
bbboricua03
@bbboricua03 (183)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I think it's really nice that you want to send her flowers! Though you say you don't know her too well, so just make sure you're not expecting too much out of this! She may be taken or something .. but if she's single, this could be the perfect start to a great relationship! Either way, you're sure to make a friend .. though I don't think you should do it anonymously, because you'll never tell her it was you, and then what would be the point? lol
ruknaa
@ruknaa (407)
• India
13 Feb 07
thanks.. your words raise my spirits
kadugudi
@kadugudi (200)
• India
18 Mar 07
u're a F 25 and How can you send her flowers annonymously ? So Tell that you are a Boy.... U're Disclosure is Wrong on myLot
FrancyDafne
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
2 Mar 07
Well Ruknaa, "hi how do you do" is a good start for a serious relationship.... :-) eh eh eh eh, just kidding.... Well, I'm curious.... Valentine passed, and.... what did it happen? Did you send flowers to her? Did you drop a line to her? myLotters who responded to your discussions were right or wrong? Please, tell us.... if you want....