restaurant etiquette for kids

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Okay, I really need to get this off my chest. I have been working in the food service industry for over 18 years. I have three children of my own. Why do some people have no clue as to how their kids should act in public? I am this close to posting a sign in my place of employment. The old adage that children should be seen and not heard is so wrong. Little people have as much right as anyone to voice their opinion. However, once that voicing rises in volume to piercing for over 30 seconds continuous, it is time for parent to step in. Other people are in the building too. Another thing very similar, children are allowed to be messy. Everyone spills at some point. This is not a big deal. Do not make your child feel bad for spilling his/her milk. I have a very cute little girl almost in tears, through no fault of her parents, that she had spilled at her "favorite" restaurant. I tried to tell her it was okay and that I spill a lot too. After she was done eating I told her that we were giving out free dessert today, but only to people that spilled their milk. She shyly smiled and nodded. Messes are typical and in fact expected. But, when the entire meal is on the floor, common courtesy says that as a parent, you should try to pick up after your child. Some spilled milk, okay, an entire box of cheerios, no. One last major issue I have is with the parents that allow the children to finger paint on the windows with their meals. Do they allow this at home? I think not. Are they going to clean our windows. Oh, no. Do they have any idea how hard is is to get macaroni and cheese off a plate glass window? I know this is just the tip of the iceberg and would love to hear about your pet peeves about parents.