Parents ask me to live with them in outside country.
By yudishtira
@yudishtira (136)
Indonesia
February 2, 2007 11:56am CST
I live in Indonesia right now while my parents (one of them is my stepfather) are living in the U.S. One day, my parents ask me to live with them. Maybe just to visiting them for not more than three months, I will do it . But to live with them? I am 25 years old, I already have my own fiance and she can't leave her parents until we get married. I'm not ready yet to get married, but I can't leave her too. What should I do? Or unless, what should I say to my parents, politely? Should be polite, because I have less communication with them, and I just don't want to break their heart. Please help me...
1 response
@momokoseiya (453)
• United States
2 Feb 07
If you are not ready to move, you do not have to. I'm sure if you explain your situation to your parents, they won't push you. They might want you to be close to them, but you have to do what is best for you. Your life is in Indonesia. You can't just pick up and leave whenever you want. I'm sure if you tell them that you are not ready, and you will consider it after you get married, they will understand.
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@yudishtira (136)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 07
I hope so... they asked me for several times, and i have told them with some another reasons. I hope i can explain this situation to them. Thank's
