my man has a female friend why cant i hav eany guy friends?

Men! my hubby it seems can talk to whomever he wants woman included and think nothing of it. But let their mates do the same thing and watch them. They have double standards *a do as i say not as i do kind*. Been there, hubby thinks just cause i talked to a man that i had interest in sleeping with him. but mostly i think it's fear. Because they are afraid if you talk to another man you would find the one you have lacking in quality somehow that your standards would go up and you know men always telling the other women she shouldn't take this or that but they are right there at home doing the same thing to their wife. But I would tell him how it makes me feel and that your uncomfortable with his relationship with the other person being so close. Could be he is harboring feelings for the other person but is now with you. So yes i would keep an eye out for anything that might seem wrong or odd to you because affairs starts right under most wives noses and they don't realize it till way later , but by then the damage is done. Good luck hope things get better.