what do you consider a good friend?
By lilac04
@lilac04 (73)
Philippines
February 2, 2007 12:18pm CST
often times we meet people and we become friends because of things we discussed. Unfortunately, sometimes this person turns out to be just taking advantage and pretends to be nice and sincere . but the thing is it is so difficult to keep distance because you work in the same office and this person tries to keep your copay no matter how often you drop a hint that you prefer to be alone. have you experienced this and who is the best good fried you ever had.
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2 responses
@nithyas1 (97)
• India
2 Feb 07
It happens for everyone dear friend!
Sometimes, a friend can be more than bugging.
Do the following to slowly avoid the bugging
1. Act as if you pay no attention to what your friend says when you are at work.
2. Ask what your friend said and ask him/her to repeat again saying that you were not listening
3. Pretend engrossed in reading a book when your friend comes to talk with you. Your friend will understand that you are busy
4. put a "don't disturb" card hanging outside your office cabin or cubicla and few posters which describe "disturbing while working is really bad"
hope these suggestions were useful!
take care, cheers,
nithya
@fedge098 (1330)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
to me good friends are those who stay even on the darkest times of our lives. not only during the happy times we feel them but also in times or trouble and problems. it is now rare to find them but still i believe good friends really do exist. ^_^
