Why other people can't say i love you to their loved one?
By joseph1364
@joseph1364 (40)
Philippines
February 2, 2007 11:18pm CST
Other people can easily say i love u to their loved ones but why others cant.Is it hard to say that 3 words?is there something with it?can you tell me how does it feels to say that magic words?...
8 responses
@ChuckGel (244)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
For me, it is really not hard to say i love you if you really do love the person. Maybe those people who have find difficulties to say that 3 magic words doesn't really love that person they're tending to talk to...
@yvonitz_marian (117)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
..hi i just want to say that it doesn't mean that you don't love the person if you can't say those three magic words..though there are people finding some difficulties still they show their love through their actions..
@here_for_you (325)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
I personally have not said "I Love You" sincerely and wholeheartedly to any person in my life. It is better done than said. In my case, I don't need my family and friends to say "I love you" to me only to make me feel loved because I can surely discern it in their actions.
@chrissymadam_simple (173)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
It depends upon the situation and the real feeling of a person....sometimes words that are so special and you really mean it are usually the words you left unspoken......or maybe they're just afraid of what might be the consequences might happen if they will tell those words...and they just express it in actions....but time will come that you will have to risk something and you'll tell those words.....or u just hide it and lose everything......
@vianney_girl16 (55)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Maybe in some who can't say.. It's hard for them to say because of the situation where they are in... Maybe they don't want to lose everything example in the situation of friends. Or maybe they need the right time to say that THREE MAGICAL WORDS....
@blee92 (581)
• United States
4 Feb 07
i think people can't say i love you to their loved ones becuase they just show their love in different ways that they don't want to say those 3 words. but i sometimes feel that they don't say those words because they don't know how it feels to be loved and how to return love.
@emilysdabomb (360)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
some people are not very vocal about what they feel. while some say i love you to almost anyone. it's as if it's just a common expression to them. and i don't see anything wrong with that. but for me, if i really mean it, i'd say it. but only if it really comes from the heart. cuz it feels so liberating once you say it to someone you love.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
maybe because that perosn your refering to dont want to be hurt. There is a reason beyond that. for instance like me as for now not like before after i got hurt because of love its very hard for me to say i love you because the moment i say it its like its the time your giving that person the right to hurt me. Im just keeping it for myself and if i know he is the right guy and he is really sincere then i will not keep it anymore. Its really a good feeling when somebody says i love you. its like you feel secure but just make its sure it comes from the inner heart and not just by words only spoken.
@yvonitz_marian (117)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
..for me, as what i am now, i never ever in my entire life do that i say i love you to my love ones..never it happened even in my family...but i show my love by expressing it through actions..because i believe that actions speaks louder than voice..it's really hard for me to say those 3 words for my love one coz i don't feel to..it's just that we don't practiced it..
