love marriage vs arrange marriage?

But arent you scared that although you might be attracted to her physically, she might be somebody really obnoxious or boring or someone whose personality might terribly clash with yours? Scary..

Well, if I was seriously considering an arranged marriage, which I'm not, I'd let my dad or mom do the picking. I'd trust them to pick a man (I'm a woman) out for me that wouldn't be dangerous or weird. My dad and especially my mom, is really a good judge of character. However, since I live in America I use my own mind and make better decisions for myself than anyone ever could.

How does that work?? The reason I'm asking is I like this Indian guy I work with. A lot. For some reason, I am just attracted to Indian guys. He comes often to my cubicle just to talk. He recently went home to India (we are in the US) at his mother's insistence and I learned that he is being potentially matched with some Indian women. He said he wasn't excited to go but worst case is he might get engaged by the time he gets back. I feel sad. I am non-Indian (Asian though) and really thought I had some chemistry with him. I was hoping he would ask me (nope. can't ask him out as I'm too shy!) out but I found out Indians don't really 'date'. Aargh, so frustrating. Maybe it wasn't meant to be. =(

u said tht u r interested in love marriage bt if ur parents r not interested with ur opinions n ur choice then wht will u do?will u go against them?