Does beauty matters in a relationship?

@mr_nerd (129)
India
February 3, 2007 5:59am CST
Although we talk about so called inner beauty are we always sure that the physical appearance doesn't make any difference in any relationship? I have seen many of my friends who are very very good by heart but fail to get a good partner because they are not beautiful. I feel pity for them and want to help them but i am helpless.
3 responses
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
well yes,inner beauty really does exist.but it would be better if you had someone who is beautiful inside out.i am not beautiful,or at least i think so,but i am trying my best to maximize the little beauty i have in me.and if i had enough money,i'll have makeovers..in the near future,perhaps i'll do that,like have my boobs done,noselift,bleach and the list goes on..even if my boyfriend says he thinks i'm beautiful,i know it just isn't enough,so i want him to be proud of me,that's why i want to improve myself physically.and i guess that's what you should do to your friends,advice them to have makeovers,if they can't afford it,then tell them to find means and ways to do so.we'll never know,one of them might turn out to be the next ms universe or something..good luck to you and to them as well!
@mr_nerd (129)
• India
3 Feb 07
Thanks for your suggestions but my question is how long the so called outer beauty lasts?
• India
3 Feb 07
no inner beauty is more important (i.e. heart liking)than outer apperence wht do u think abt it
@mr_nerd (129)
• India
3 Feb 07
Yes you are right. But its not happening everywhere which is a sad part.
@wsdm118 (11)
• Germany
3 Feb 07
sorry outer beauty is the foundation of a relationship... you have to be physically attracted to someone for things to work. When you first see someone that you might want to approach, you see thier beauty, not thier personality. You say, wow she's fine!, not wow she's got a great personality. Now it can happen where you're friends first and the personality grows on you but I still think outer beauty will always play a role!
@mr_nerd (129)
• India
3 Feb 07
its always not necessary that beautiful people are good by heart. But i agree human tendency is like that but i feel its bad. when will so called ugly people get chance.