Do you and your SO/spouse kiss goodnight anymore?
By sylviekitty
@sylviekitty (2083)
United States
February 3, 2007 7:32am CST
Maybe it's because my husband stays up later than I do half the time, but it's more often than not that we *don't* kiss goodnight anymore. Heck, I'm not even sure when is the last time either of us said "I love you" before we fell asleep. We've been married 8 1/2 years now. Wow.. Doesn't that seem sad??
What about you?
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
3 Feb 07
We have been married 7 years, but together for 12. He goes to bed with the chickens because of his job. We do not kiss goodnight much anymore. We do tell each other I love you, quite a bit. It is sad.
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@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Awwww :( HUGS. I think kissing is so important. My husband usually tells me he'd rather just get to the good part. (rolls eyes)
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@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
3 Feb 07
No, he probably wouldn't mind. LOL Sometimes we wake up in the middle of the night night and kiss, sort of half awake, I guess. Maybe it's just that we're too tired? We do kiss in the mornings before he leaves for work, though.
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@rainbow (6761)
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3 Feb 07
I'm lucky if I get a little kiss, usually because I got to bed earlier. If I say love you before I go to sleep I get told the same back, he sometimes says it in the morning if I'm moaning about doing his pack up etc. I don't think it matters whether you say it or not, if you didn't love them you wouldn't still be there.
We've been together for 7 1/2 years and we are not romantic any more maybe the word is comfortable.
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@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I think I know what you mean- comfortable. My husband and I aren't romantic much, either. Not that I wouldn't like it, necessarily..
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@alfa62603 (192)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
wee're married for 5 years...we never get to kiss and hug...before he leaves for work, when he comes back and before we sleep...sometimes for no reason at all we kiss ang hug too :)
@payingforschool (678)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
My hubby and I have been through a seperation - it was three years ago now - but what it did was make us realize how much we appreciate and love each other. We always kiss goodnight, goodbye ... whatever...we have lots of spontaneous hugs and cuddles when we are cooking or just hanging out. It's almost like we are newlyweds ... but we really do know now that life without each other is just crummy.
@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I'm glad you were able to work it out. :)
Sometimes my husband and I do that, too.. we're fond of grabbing each other on the rear-end, whenever the mood strikes us. LOL
@payingforschool (678)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
hehe we do the rear end grab too. WHen the kids aren't lookin'.
@vicky_lane4987 (980)
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8 Feb 07
when me and my partner are together we always kiss each other goodnight...but then again we still find an excuse to kiss each other, after 20 months
@Petrakkos (310)
• Cyprus
5 Feb 07
not always-the first years is different-then we change-love changes-telationship changes
@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
5 Feb 07
That is true. Love changes, the longer you've been together.. there are different stages.
