how will you handle the situation when your lover fight with you???
By sam836483
@sam836483 (62)
India
7 responses
@honey2028 (48)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
The best thing to do is listen first.Ask him to forgive you if you done wrong and make him/her feel that your so sorry about what happen and promise it will not happen again.Then forget it fast as if nothing happend.
@cutekristine (526)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
In a relationship, we both experience the ups and downs. We argued with our partners because of the differences we have with them. What is acceptable to them may not be acceptable to them. Theres a lot of reasons to argue about and sometimes the cause of arguments are just really simple things. Im not excuse to this, we also argued with my boyfriend of two years a lot of times and i cant even keep track how many. When we were still new in the relationship, we argued on something and we actually broke up for ten minutes and thank god that was only for a short time. From that very same argument i learned a lot of thing. it is really important to our our partners very well, his/her attitude to the things he/she likes or dislikes. I also learned that we also have to accept our differences and as well our faults though it may really hurt our ego but still it will make us a better person. the most important thing is learning to compromise on a lot of things.
@amaine (2027)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
yeah , , i know it's difficult to handle , , but we have to face it on the first place , , we got into that trouble then we should know how to get out of that ,, right? , ,
it's just normal for a relationship to have fights , , a relationshp sometimes has its ups and downs , , :-)
@awesomeone (55)
• Indonesia
3 Feb 07
Just calm down, cold mind, and then go out to take a fresh air and then... come back give him a warm kiss and talk to him in cold mind....