what is the best way to handle a breakup????

i'd say start off by dealing with the situation. don't sourgrape, don't be in denial about what happened. first step will be acceptance of the situation. some breakdown and cry. some get angry. some are cool with it. eventually it will be okay. you'll realize that you're okay and you're gonna be okay. it sucks at first but i'm sure you'll get over it. but the only way to get over it is if you accept it. a lot of people go sourgraping. or they go for rebounds. they're actually not dealing with the situation so it takes them a whole lot of time getting over it.

I handle it the way most people do. Pretend that nothing happened and go on with life even though the pain is still there. It's better to let the people see that you're happy rather than explaining to them why you're sad. And as time goes on the pain will be gone and another love may come your way.

well, there really is no easy way to handle a breakup, but it is true that time heals all wounds. you may feel like total crap right after the breakup, which may go on for months, even years. but trust that everything happens for a reason and that someday, somehow, you will be ok. i learned that during this time it's best to keep yourself busy and surround yourself with people who love you, like family and friends. you will be ok, i guarantee it. good luck! =)

I've been through three break ups and it really made me so unhappy. My bestfriend was at my side each time, making my pain a little lighter. He would insist that we watch movies, go on shopping, try different food etc. when all I wanted to do was sulk in my bed all day. My brothers were also there during those troubled times, ready to hug me when I feel like crying. With support from family and friends, I was able to stand up again.