Am I going through a miscarriage?

May 28, 2006 8:30pm CST
I found out i was pregnat 3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend were going to get an abortion anyway after i told my parents but I've been cramping for 2 weeks and bleeding very little for over a week so i don't know if im going threw a miscarriage i know these are signs but i also feel moody and feel like throwing up in the morning and that happens when your still pregnat ....... so im congused ....i really need to go get a pregnacy test to know for sure
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@ilse72 (1450)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Please contact your doctor. Some women due experience cramping and spotting early in their pregnancy and it means nothing...others have spotting that turns into heavy bleeding accompanied by a miscarriage. The only way to know for sure what is going on is to see your doctor. Please see him asap. (I'm an R.N.)
4 people like this
• United States
8 Jan 07
It could be, it might not be. My mom had that happen a few times with me but she still had me.
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@gigarange (1165)
• United States
9 Jan 07
I agree with you! Some women experience cramping and spotting in their pregnancy. Better to go visit the doctor for sure.
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@jmp824 (741)
• Philippines
26 Oct 06
Go to an OB-GYNE and have it check. My two cent advise, dont go for ABORTION - IT IS WRONG! Have pity on the life that you are carrying. Its not his/her fault. Its the result of the intimate feelings between you and your bf. You did it for love , right? So why ABORT the life??? Think a million times my dear. Its a blessing, a gift from God!. I do hope that you and your boyfriend are mature enough to decide on things. Be responsible of the consequences of your actions!
@kcbabez14 (967)
• United States
20 Nov 06
Well you need to go and get checked out to see if everythings alright! Why would you want an abortion anyway? if you don't want the child you can always give it up for adoption.. i know pelnty of people including myself who would adopt children!
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@krysy1982 (1041)
• United States
20 Nov 06
I agree see a doctor. You really need to think long and hard before ending that baby's life. It is something you will never forget. Think about adoption.
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• United States
5 Jan 07
Since you already found out you were pregnant, I dont think another pregnancy test wold be the best choice. You would still have the hormone in your body. If you are unsure of what is going on, go to your doctor and tell them what is happening. They can do an ultrasound to see if there is still a developing baby in the sac. Do you know how far along you are? It is harder to find a doctor to do an abortion after 12 weeks (I believe). Have you thought of adoption if you can not care for your baby? Tell your parents and get to the doctor as soon as possible. Some women will still bleed a little with implantation bleeding and cramping is pretty normal in the early stages of a pregnancy. Good luck with your decision.
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• United States
7 Jan 07
Well, it is a good chance that you are not miscarring. When I first was pregnant, during the first tri-mester I also had severe cramping and very little bleeding. I went to the doctor and was told that most likely it was the uterin wall expanding and that is what was causing the pain and bleeding. When you miscarry, you bleed alot. If you are going to abort, the sooner you go in the better, so go to the doctor asap.
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@Andy77 (430)
• United States
24 Jun 06
Yes, get a pregnancy test and find out. If you are, tell your parents and see a doctor. You must make a difficult decision if you are pregnant. Remember, after 12 weeks, an abortion is much more difficult, so don't wait.
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• United States
27 Nov 06
I suggest you see a doctor anyway...the bleeding and cramping can be from other things also....and if your not sure about what you have and just assume it's something...their could be something seriously wrong with you...and if you plan on having kids in the future this could affect your body!
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• India
27 Nov 06
no idea
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• United States
26 Oct 06
See your doctor.
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@tildy12 (760)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Then you should get to A Doctor asap so uou would know for certain what id going on with the baby.
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• India
8 Jan 07
I agree with you
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• Indonesia
27 Nov 06
See your doctor
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• India
9 Jan 07
i thing so u have to concern to your doctor
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9 Jan 07
you dont say how old you are or if this is your first pregnancy. If you have already found out that you are pregnant the first thing you should do now is make an appointment with your mum for support if she agrees, to see your doctor before you suffer any more, I had a miscarriage and your symptoms are very similar. please dont waste any time your body is in turmoil at present please see a doctor.
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• India
9 Jan 07
baby - baby
i suggest u to not to go for the miscarriage because if it is your first pregnencey then it may be dangerous for your utrus and it may bring some serious problems in future so better go to the doctor and get some treatment and have a cute baby.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
9 Jan 07
It could be a miscarriage but it can also be something else. U need to see a doctor about this.Anyways I had a miscarriage once and The pregnancysymptoms like me wanting to throw up did not dissapear right away.. good luck!
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• Pakistan
8 Jan 07
ya u might b goin thru one
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@scitrus (131)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Go ahead and get to the doctor/Med center to make sure everything is alright with you before you get your abortion. Then go right ahead with it. Cancer is life too, but both growths are most unwelcome at this time for you.
@smilyn (2967)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Nowadays pregnancy kits are available in almost all pharmacies. You can get one and chck for pregnancy at home. Or else have a visit to a gynaecologist sooner.
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@Anayden (62)
• Arlington, Texas
8 Jan 07
It is still a possiblity you are pregnant.
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