why do women likes to play games

I like your post meeandnotyou ... and i like your name too actually LOL anyway if it is true that women tend to be attracted to the Fonzy bad guy type, they probably consider only DATING him and not MARRYING him ( or go steady) what I mean is you fantasize about the bad guy but you marry the nice one ;) Or at least I did LOL

ricknkae, that is the problem! they marry a guy like I am now and then when a guy like I use to be comes along I get hurt because they act out their fantasy with them rather thay who they have at home, thinking the whole time "good 'ol mee is going nowhere since if I get cought I'll bat my eyes and he will accept my appology". It is crap since if I were that peice of crap they dream about then it would all be good since it would be "get in, get off, get out." and I would have all sorts of disposible income since I would have a single pad without this 4 bedroom home, lower water bills, lower electricity, etc... Not to mention the idea that she is all I dream about not anyone else so I have the constant nagging in the back of my head as to weather or not she is thinking about mee or someone else. I guess what I am saying is being a good guy SUCKS!! I hate being used and abused. I hate people walking all over mee because they know I am not the monster I use to be and I do not want any more trouble in my life. One of these days I swear to god I am going to snap and hurt somebody really bad, (won't phsycally be a woman as I do not believe in that type of stuff). I don't know maybe I am just ranting because I am pissed off and have been all day. Sorry for the rant and have a great day!!

Well brother, First i would like to say thank you for your responding to my discussion. I really hope that you don't turn back into the piece of crap that you used to be. I guess what they say is true nice guys all ways finsh last,but we finish with the best. So keep your head held up high like me,and when i found out why women play the games they play. You will know cuase i will write a book on it. It will be a best seller. Have a great grand and wonderful day peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your response. I agree your youngens should always come first. Don't put your heart cuase of it. If that makes any sence. I also agree that men play just as much games as women. why cuase we are stupid. point blank. On the other hands I stop playin games 7 years ago. i am 27 now. Thanks for the luck i will need it as much as possibe. I hope you find someone who is good to you and your younges. peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your response and i def will hang on to the one that don't play games but she is really hard to find peace n lov iceman

I just wanted to say that i like your response it kinda give me hope cause i am a kentucky boy and sounds like your husband is lucky to have found a lady like yourself and to never let it go cuase once it's so hard to get a lady peace n lov iceman

First of all i want to say thank you for response second I think your right if it wasn't for bad luck I wouldn't have any luck at all. It just that i talk to women and they want all of this that and the other,and Iam the guy to give it to them and then it seems like they dont want it. Iam not looking for love right at this point in my life, but if i can find one lady just one who wants to be treated like a lady. Then maybe love might come in to play but it would probley be a while. peace n lov iceman

Hey sugar, I wanted to say thank you for your respond, And that it seems to be that way. It's not just younger women its older women as well. If there is a good lady out there why are they all hiding. Just like another mylot user said I dont mean to say all women just the ones i run into. I have been all over the us so it's not like just here in ky. So if a women been in a bad relationship how can you get her to see a good one? You have a good day peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your respones. I am glad to hear that you like to be treated like lady. I just wish i could find one. If you have one hold on to him. and if you don't have one i live in ky lol peace n lov iceman

Thanks for your response. I hope your right cuaes i am getting older ahhhhhhhhhh just playin I think it would be nice to find one peace n lov iceman

Thanks for your response. If ladies like that point where they are hiding cuase all i find are women who has gotten hurt and so they dont know how to act when they do get a gentleman. peace n lov iceman

Thanks for your response. I agree with you I hate them probley more than you do. I am always honest when it comes who and what i stand for and in relationships some times it hurts to tell the truth but i still do it peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your response. Your right there are some guys that play as much as women do. The one's that don't play games is the one's get's the women who dose and that sucks. I do ask God for guidance and in hopes he will lead me closer to him and wife who loves me for me who also will follow him. peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your response. I was thinkin of that too. I am not for sure after hearing the response from the others but I can see that in some women. peace n lov iceman

Well there is not need to feel sorry for me. I am not looking for a pitty party. I want to say thank you for responding to my discussion. I don't think I am overdoing it. On the other hand they might feel like i am trying to control them do to the fact. That they have never been treated like a lady so thank you peace n lov iceman

You are right not all women just the ones in Az,mo,ks,ny,co,IA,(airzona,missouri,kansas,new york,corlodo,IOWA). Witch are states just incase you didn't know where I was talken about, but thanks for the goodluck I need all the luck i can get. Have a Beautiful day peace n lov iceman

Thank you for you response. I am glad to hear that you had found a great guy in your life that you could share with.If I do run into another women like that how can i show her that i won't treat her like that before she runs off. Cause it seems like that girl out there waiting for me has alredy been hurt,and she just needs some tlc peace n lov iceman

maybe you could start out slow at first with the romance. Not show her just how nice you are, and when she opens up to you about where and when she's been hurt, be there for her, but don't overdo it. I've seen guys who really took on the burden of hurt that their ladies went through only to have it backfire on them. Just be yourself, but enough that you won't get hurt too. :)

Thank you for your response. I know the old saying if it is to good to be true then it probly is. How do you show a women that you are a good guy with out getting run off first or show them your not just all talk and no action? i hope i can find that lady who everyone says that is right for me that would be sweet. peace n lov iceman

Thanks for your response. Like I told another mylot user when I truley find out the answer to this question I will write a book on it and it will become a best seller. I am verry impressed with some of the response its going to hard to pick one for best response just read the response that i have recived and maybe it could give you a light on the subject like it has me there really good peace n lov iceman

Thanks for your response. I understand if you dont have the chemistry and women just being nice and not wanted to tell your to your face,but in this case its a we bit diffenrt cuase she told my friend i was verry attractive (witch i think she is blind) cuase i am just ok, but anyways she tells me everything is going fine, but tells my friend. Witch she knows will tell me that she don't think it can go any where. So on one hand she tells me everything is fine and on the other she saying it is not. To me that is playin games cuase if there wasn't any chemistry then she could say i dont think this is going to work from jump street you know. She could go for the all time kill and say lets just be friends. peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your response. I don't try to be with a women just so i can fall in love with her. If I do happen to fall back into love with someone i have been dating it will after i have dated her a while, but i understand what you are saying about me expect from them instead of askin what do they expect from me. See i am me for me and if you don't like it then sorry. I told the last girl i dated I was sorry that she dated azzholes, but dont compare me to them cuase i wont be like them and its not fair to me to try to compeate with all the azzes in the world its hard enough just to impress someone and do it as long as yall are together. Cause i am a strong beliver the day you stoping making her happy is the day she says goodbye peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your response. Why are men just toys to play with. Don't you think us men have feeling too. We are human and do have emotestions just as well as women do. Well sugar let me let you in on a secret about most men. Behind our coat of armor there is this thing called a heart. Big,small,black,cold,warm,or red filled with love it's still there and when it gets crushed it still hurts peace n lov iceman

Thank you for your response. If that is the case just to prove to men they can play games better than us. Would say that is messed up. peace n lov iceman