How do you start after divorce?

I would think the first thing is to make new friends , I would immagine things will be so different for you , I left you a note on the lovely response you gave to my discussion about my poem I wrote about my son. This might be a help to you as well xx

...start off by starting a new totally diffrent hobby.... or to go to salon and pamper yourself... sometimes, its harder to move on when u still see yourself as the 'old' you. the 'old' you that was with him... look at the mirror and look for the 'new' you... and of course, start tracking down your friends again... or better yet, create new friends. for sure, it wont take yu too long to do that :)

I know just exactly how you feel it can be a very lonely time. But you do wake up every morning and every day is going to be different. So look at every day as a challenge and try to do something different every day, meet a different person every day,change your hair, change your closes, but dont't go back to the same places that you and your EX went.

You take a deep breath and think Oh boy what do I do now. Time for me! You get to start to take care of you. Have your colors, put your things where you like to. Have all the closet!!! Eat what you want when you want. Don't have to pick up anyones laundry. Now working you create a life around you, your pet, your plants, and even the friends that will become a part of your life as you become all you can be since you are taking care of you! Congratulations! You have weathered the story and come out the other side. I wish you happy times, good friends that are truly good friends, good food, great movies and healthy plants! Take care and take this opportunity for goodness in your life.