Do you cry when u feel sad or depressed or keep it in your mind...???/

@avs189 (1030)
India
February 3, 2007 5:04pm CST
Many mylotian members would be wondering why I am asking such a trivial question...I jsut wanna know how do you express your sorrow or when u feel down or hurted by someone ...do you feel that crying means you are mentally weak or does it mean that u do not have courage enough to face the sorrows of your life...?? ALL USERS WOULD BE RATED
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5 responses
@alotoli (28)
• India
5 Feb 07
Well...I mostly keep my feelings suppressed,its kinda hard for me to reveal all my thoughts to anyone and I usually dont cry infront of anyone unless Im totally angry, but when Im alone and I think about all those 'Things', I could cry a gallon! :-) If some says crying is mental weakness that person is totally insane. Crying is not about having less courage infact I always find myself invigorated after I cry, up and ready to do just about anything.:-)
@avs189 (1030)
• India
5 Feb 07
Really thanks for your reply...Sometimes i think I am the only one who keeps on crying rather than being mentally strong...
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
4 Feb 07
I think crying is a way to help yourself heal. I don't think it means you are weak, especially if you are a guy. I think crying is needed when you are upset, hurt whatever, it's an expression/emotion that needs to be expressed not suppressed.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
4 Feb 07
Really thanks for the reply....yea sometimes men do not open up so much ...all of them is bottled inside their mind..sometimes its true test of character....when really going through bad situations....
@ownado (1679)
• Portugal
3 Feb 07
Normally I try not to feel sad and it almost never happens to me fortunately but when I am sad I don't cry because it will not get better just because I cry.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
3 Feb 07
You are lucky that you are never made to feel sad ..hope it continues for you..anyways thanks for the reply..
@xXmeganxX (4420)
3 Feb 07
hi there, it all depends on what im depressed or feeling sad about. for example if ive had an argument with my boyfriend then i might have the odd cry if it's so bad, and then if im depressed due to the hard goings sometimes i have to put up with then i will just go mad and scream at everyone who comes near me, LOL! :O)
@avs189 (1030)
• India
3 Feb 07
Thanks for response....girls are normally associated with crying since they are not able to hide their feelings as compared to women....anyways thanks for reply..
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3 Feb 07
I tend to keep it all bottled up and never talk about how i feel but eventually it all gets too much and i explode and can be very bad tempered, my poor fiance always gets the full force of my explosion, mainly cos its him that puts the final blow in and causes me to explode but then i shout and cry for a few hours and start over again.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
3 Feb 07
So kind and considerate of ur fiancee that he understands you and takes you into consideration along with your temper ...thanks for reply...wish u luck with ur fiancee..