love

You can be attract to someone you are chatting with but I don't think you can fall in love. Just ask yourself why you are attract? What is happening in your couple. Maybe you should talk with your wife. Don't mess with your marriage for someone your never saw.

I think in this day and age of computer relationships it can be very sad that people get caught up in the "relationship" aspect of a simple conversation on the internet...It is very easy if one doesn't have a good handle on reality ( no offense intended)..Perhaps if you ask yourself some good questions you could save yourself alot of time and heartache...this person you think you love on the internet...is she giving you something you can't get from your wife? Like conversation about certain subjects...or compliments...or a way with words that makes you feel good about yourself?...Not that you don't already know this...but many people jeopordize their wonderful marriages for a relationship they form over the internet...they fall in "love" and break all the trust and vows and promises that encompass a marriage....only to lose it all..the marriage and the internet relationship..wouldn't you be ashamed to break your wife's heart and then find out that the woman you think you Love on the internet isn't even a woman? Many have had this happen...they find they are talking to someone that isn't the gender they claim to be...or isn't even really interested in them at all...just fun for them to pretend on the net and be whomever they want to be...no skin off their backs...they are playing a game..and yet the other person ( you for example) are believing the whole scam and ruining a good relationship for nothing...This may not be the case with you...but it could be...Reality is important...talk to your wife...talk to yourself..ask why you are doing this...why are you not seeking those things from the woman you loved and married...and lastly...would you be upset if your wife was doing the same thing without your knowledge?...Whether you think she is capable of that or not...anyone is....so think hard and try to be reasonable...is this what you think it is...or is this a scam or short term fling that will you will totally regret very soon...Talking on line is completely different than meeting in person....are you willing to cheat on your wife and expect her not to cheat on you?...You are in dangerous territory..and the whole thing could blow up in your face...Tread lightly...and end one relationship before starting another...it is only true and fair...