what if your girl say she's a virgin and you found out she's not?

If you love someone, you can accept that had a past that might include other lovers/boyfriends. maybe if she did lie, she regretted her intimacy with another,and regrets not waiting, perhaps she is afraid you will think less of her. I am not saying its right to lie, but I would get the bottom of the reason why she lied in the first place.Good topic!

I think this would be very difficult and you would have to confront her about it. It would be possible you misunderstood as a woman can have no hymen (due to several factors some as simple as bike riding) and still be a virgin. It is very difficult to have a relationship based on lies. It is hard to trust a person once you have caught them in a lie, and once the trust is broken it is very hard to rebuild. I'm not sure what I'd do in this type of situation (I'm female) but I don't think I would not love that person anymore. Love takes a lot to destroy. If the lying continued however, I would lose respect for that person very quickly.

How would you know she isn't a virgin? I hope its not because her hymen wasn't intact any more, because there are lots of things that can rupture such a thin membrane, even a bad fall. Love shouldn't depend on someone's virginity. is she upset that you aren't a vorgin, she expects the same consideration from you

I will asked her, why she lies to me? If I found the answer are most reasonable to me, i'll accept her. If its not, i'll TRY to accept her. However, you have already married her.

virgin is important, but her is very important for you. ask her why she lied and trust her. however, you have a promised to love her until the end of your life. everyone had fault, so..why don't you trust her and believer her? She's your wife right now, huh??

is virginity that important to you, way more than the wonderful moments you've shared with this person? maybe she got scared of losing you and so she lied. think about it -- you may lose that one great person you promised to love and cherish --NO MATTER WHAT --just because she is not a virgin anymore. what is virginity anyway?

The fact she wasn't a virgin wouldn't bether me. What would tho is if she lied about that what else is she lieing about.