Can you teach your heart to love a person you never loved?
By joseph1364
@joseph1364 (40)
Philippines
February 3, 2007 10:46pm CST
Many said that we can't teach our heart and we can't refuse where it beats for.But can you teach ur heart to love someone you have never loved and he has been loving u since the first day he saw you?Can you love him without any reasons?can you share?
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6 responses
@ChuckGel (244)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
For me, teaching a heart to fall in love is not that difficult, especially if the person you've want to love to has that good sense of humor. A person who has a noble attitude is really not difficult to be loved of. If he/she can give you a lot of care, understanding and love that you want to have, then its not that possible for love not to grow in you for him/her. It is really not difficult...PROMISE
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@dienutza (449)
• Romania
4 Feb 07
when you meet a person,he or she will let a first good impression to you..and in that moment you know if you like him or not..and the way to love is very very fast....you first time like someone..then you find him or she funny in a good way,then you begin to have strong feeling for him and in the last moment you fall in love with hime..then you can say you love him...but i can say that if you didn't loved him at the first time...you can't love someone that you don't even like..as i said it's a looong way form "like" to "love"..
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
I don't think you can make yourself love someone you only think about as a friend . There is someone out there for each of us and some of these people are only meant to be friends and there are the select few that can or may become our soulmates .
I think by trying to make yourself care for someone more then you do , will only be to disillusion yourself and the person who does care for you more then you do and this can only result in hurt for both of you .
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@chrissymadam_simple (173)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
I don't know...I am confused...But I think it's not difficult...basta...you are just willing to try and give that person a chance to show his/her love...to you and I think if that person truly loves me and if he's very sincere enough soon I know my heart will beat for him....as what I've said that I rather go to the one who loves me...
@jsae29 (1120)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
you cannot teach your heart to love someone because the heart is not capable of learning. It is only capable of feeling and not thinking. But I guess, if the person really loves you and do many good things to you, it is possible that you develop love for him.