Possessive Husband?

@kirenz (374)
Canada
February 4, 2007 12:18am CST
Is your husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, or fiance possessive about you?.. or you are possessive about him/her? and how do you feel about it. I duno but i feel that my fiance love sme that is the only reason he i so possessive about me. So i feel more special..
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@zeeshank (73)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
i cant tell u kiren that what u ve to do.but the think that i know ur husband love you so much.he cant live widout u.babye.
@kirenz (374)
• Canada
8 Feb 07
i know he loves me so much. i wish he loves me like this always.
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@wenkinnoc (482)
4 Feb 07
There is a fine line for love between obssession and possession. I dont have a girlfriend, but I doknow that I would do my damndest to love and cherish her. At the sam time I would make sure to respect her space, and ive her time along if that is what she needs. Guys like that, are just insecure and need more confidence in themselves.
@kirenz (374)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
If i talk abt me I am trying to control myself to back off a bit. i m my self. and you are rite people need space. and i m trying learn giving my fiance a little space :). but isnt it hard to change yourself :S. all i can change myself is for a week max and than back to my self. Hopfuly i will be able to one day. :P.
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@hakula (15)
• China
7 Feb 07
i think maybe i'm that kind of person,i posessive about my bf,i want him acompay me wherever i go,except work.but i do not tink that bad, becouse he has same action to me, wherever he go he must ask me together, he donot let me alone, maybe that's just becouse we love each other deeply,additionally, we decided to hold a wedding next year. i think i'm luck
• United States
4 Feb 07
Possessive is a term that should really not go hand and hand with love. You may feel special right now because he seems possessive over you and that makes you feel his love. But never let him think he owns you. Many men look at women as something they own when infact we are our own person that have chosen to love them. This confusion can lead to extreme jealousy and eventually anger and abuse. Be careful and talk to him now about his possessive behavior or you could be heading down the wrong path with your husband to be. Best wishes..
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
Well that is good for you but be careful that he should not be too overpossesive to you. My husband is the opposite one. He is not possesive to me. I think sometimes if he really want me. I can't feel a possesiveness in him even just a little of it. He just leave me alone and if we walk together outside he would said that I should not hold his hand. We just walk as if we are friends. Sometimes I get hurt. Sometimes I want that he want me to be really his but it seems that it is okay for him that I am not visible in his sight. He often leaves me and my baby in our house and he is outside in the internet cafe or I don't know where and goes home dawn or late at night. It is so frustrating.
• United States
4 Feb 07
Just be careful and if the possessiveness ever turns to violence please think fo yourself and protect yourself. He needs to trust you and feel confident in your love to where he wont feel so possessive. Good luck, Hun!
@kirenz (374)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
oh no, just possessive thats it. i think every one is a bit towords their loved ones.
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