Whom do quarrely often in your family

I argue the most with my teen son. I think it an age thing where he wants to break away more from me (his mom and be more independant. He always tells me he wants to get a job. He would give me some of his money to help out with bills. But I tell him not yet. Be a kid while you have the chance. Once you start to work. You will be working the rest of your life. He says but he wants to work and will help pay for things. I try and tell him. He is my son. I would never take money from him to pay for things no matter if I was starving while he is under age.

I quarrel with myself very often. By that I mean u know undecisive, fighting my own thoughts.