do you think it's really necessarily having children in a marriage?
By dienutza
@dienutza (449)
Romania
February 4, 2007 8:51am CST
do you think that in a marriage having children is quite necessarily?..i know that many many families don't have children and they're quite sad...is a child such important for a family?..children are sometimes very bad and make their parents be sad and even mad on them..they only piss off their parents...i know that childs are important in a family but exist some that only make problems to theri parents...:(..me...
5 responses
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
7 Feb 07
in my opinion its all up to the people. i say if you can have kids and can afford them thats great. if you dont want kids then thats fine too. you dont have to have kids just because you are married. people have their own opinions and their own way of living. i say as long as your happy do what you want and dont worry what others think
@yogiraut (230)
• India
7 Feb 07
This world is still going on bcoz their r people living in it. If there r no people why the hell will there be this world. So if our race has to survive on this planet we need to have children. Lets look at the other aspect, having kids is a beautifull experience , spending time with them is such a beautifull experience.
@jitu_anurag (603)
• India
4 Feb 07
I think it's necessary and as to get them know what the culture is.Also in such functions we do meet our relatives and friends and the children do get platform to know the customs.I don't think any problem children create in such functions and if so we can give them the example of others and ask them to behave properly.
@gendomingo (115)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
well it really depends. if you think you not capable of the responsibility having kids then it is your choice. but, it is really a blessing having kids. it is really how parents discipline their kids that they can become good or naughty ones. it only needs a lot of patience, understanding, tender love & care to be able raise kind-hearted & obedient children.
@jedy_master (144)
• Romania
7 Feb 07
Of course you need to hace kids, why is marriage foe is you don't have kids?
Your life means nothing if you don't have children.
When you end up old all that matters is what you do, and you ask yourself " what have i done in my life?" and if you don't have kids it means that in your life you haven't done anything, you lived for nothing.
