Long distance relation ship

Malaysia
February 4, 2007 9:30am CST
my girl is leaving me to work and I still have long to go to finish my college.do long distance relationships work?I really love her but I have this feeling that she is going to become different and I am going to become different and we wont be able understand each other anymore in future?
4 responses
• India
4 Feb 07
hey i understand how it feel dude...cause my fiancee is in a different country...and its really hard you know....but love is what holds you together...i miss her alot and feel helpless not being able to meet her for the past 1 year...but we talk daily on the phone or chat online...but it still doesnt come close to actually being with her....i wish the best for you dude...but trust and love are really important if you want to be with her till the end...all the best man...
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• Sri Lanka
4 Feb 07
Dnt even ask yourself if its possible. Cos you know your doubing yourself. N in that case that means your insecure of her n yourself. Well I believe tat long distance relation will work. Because im aswell a guy who has to leave middle of this year abroad. N besides that i got alot of friends who has left abroad to earn and came back n married the girl n still having a good relation. Anyways never be insecure about your relation.
• United States
4 Feb 07
long distance relationships are really hard. u have to be very committed and really really love the person and even then they might not succeed. if u want this to work make sure u put in ur best effort. call, send cards, send flowers, and visit on weekends as often as u can. everyone needs somebody to be there and listen and understand what another is going through. just make sure that somebody else doesn't have the opportunity to do that in ur abscense. and it will work.
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
You may have differences along the way but its up to you and your girl friend if these differences would affect the relationship. I have known some people who has a long distance relationship and so far most of them are still together... I think the secret is constant communication. I know it would be very expensive but its worth it. If you love your girl friend so much then respect and understand her dreams, be supportive of what she wants and i'm sure she'll be very thankful to you in doing so. Also communicate with her so that both of you will be updated to whats happening in your lives and you'll be able to understand each other more... good luck to both of you...