why girls??

I am getting to know some customs and traditions do not make sense to me. Probably because i was born in a free country. My sisters were not born to be servants of men and they are living well. As for you i feel sad for you because you are not allowed to live your life the way you would like. I think your traditions are made by men for men to benefit. I don't see that as being fair. I wish you well Shalu89.

well, i guess it depends what traditions you do have and the area you live in. for me. i moved out long before i got married. i still love my parents and spent time with them, but i had to find my own life as well. and of course, i'm head of my household...well, co-head. i don't serve anyone but give orders so to say, so i don't serve someone elses family. but i do consider my husbands family my family as well.