Should women blame man or God for their suffering?

Keep in mind that throughout the years men wrote the Bible. That could have a lot to do with it.

I have dissected your posting because you have pointed out several subjects and I'm not sure which one of these you want to be replied to. Why God has only one Son? This is a theological question. Questions about the nature of God will not get any definitive and conclusive answer. All will just be a matter of belief, conjectures and opinions. God does not seem to believe in equality of men and women: Another religious and theological question. I don't actually understand why you came up with such question. Why do you think God used a woman to bear His Son when He sent Him into the World. He could have just appeared like an angel without having to go through a woman's womb. Women has a special place in history and a role that man can never do. Man and woman are equal but different. You also have posted sociological issues.You have implied that women are under slavery and are suffering. To this I beg to disagree. Women in some places of the world are treated as secondary citizens because of religious influence and social conventions but this fact doesn't speak for all women in the world. Even then, there are indications that the majority are happy with their conditions and accepted their roles as helpmate to men. The problem arise when some women have travelled abroad especially to western countries and are exposed to the role of women in western society. Granting your assumptions are correct that women are indeed slaves and are suffering, that still is no reason to blame either man or God. They should do their best to alleviate their plight.

I don't think we should *blame* anyone. We, as humans, can't begin to try and guess what God really thinks and feels. We only have the often-translated words of men speaking for God to go by. That's not enough for us to extrapolate anything from. We can only do our best to read between the lines and behind the words. We women have been doing well to fight for our own equality, and slowly but surely, we're getting it. At least in some parts of the world. I've suffered, sure, but I don't place blame on anyone for it. Why dwell on it when you can take the lessons learned and better yourself instead?

Is that Mel Gibson in your user photo? Women should blame men. Women use to be thought of as property and on an equal level to livestock. I'm so glad it's not like that here in the US. but it's terrible how poorly women are treated in the mid-east.