Do you hold hands b4 married and after married?

@nfhs79 (861)
Malaysia
February 4, 2007 10:07pm CST
I suppose all people like to hold hands. Hold each other. But, it seems like your holding your partner hands when you're in LOVE. After married no more holding hands. May I know why? Or is it true my statement above? We like to hold hands and even we walk together with my baby.
10 responses
@Naomi17 (624)
5 Feb 07
Holding hands,kissing, cuddling is important i'm still very much in love with him and the kids laugh sometimes and say to hubby put her down lol
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@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
That's great. Keep up your good work!
@talisman (1300)
• United States
5 Feb 07
If you're saying that people in love hold hands, but people who are married don't, you're saying that people who are married aren't in love. That's a bit off the main subject, but I had to point that out. Yes, I hold hands with my husband. I did before I married him and it has still continued after we got married.
@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
Actually, LOVE itself are mysterious. Holding hands is just a way of to show love. And I think couples after in loving season, get married they soon forgot about all the sweet things shared in that love season. After having babies, kids all around things like this shouldn't be a factor for us not to hold hands. Well, for me holding hands, are sweetest moment I have. Thank you for your response talisman. Have a Nice Day!
@wdiong (1815)
• Singapore
5 Feb 07
It was a special feeling holding hands with that someone special before getting married. But after getting married with kids, it is now more of holding the children's hands. Very sad, but true in my case.
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@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
Yup! Really true. I think most of the time much more holding my baby rather than holding hands with my husband. In reality life, I think more married couple aren't aware about this matter. We hope that we can in love all the time! Have a nice day wdiong.
• India
5 Feb 07
I am not married yet... but i dont find any reason in not holding your partners hand after marriage... why will someone do this...
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@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
Fall in love, get married and tell me the differences. He he. Joking. Why? I cannot give the right answer. If you possible, hold hands whenever you can or wherever you are. Thanks and have a nice day!
@mimatexas (1818)
• United States
5 Feb 07
We have been married for 20 years and we still hold hands and kiss each other. I love my husband very much. In April 5th we'll be 21 years married.
@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
Congrats mimatexas! I just married for about 2 years. How do you keep your relation so tight!? I guess that you're the best wife ever for your husband. I hope our relation will last forever! Thanks and have a nice day mimatexas!
• Indonesia
5 Feb 07
I'm in love but I never hold his hand when we walk together. He's just beside me, but with no hold hand. actually, I want if he holds my hand, hehe...after married ?? Hmm...actually..I'm not get married now. I still 21 years old and still in university. too young if I get married now:):)
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@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
Ooo well it doesn't matter anyway. I hope you can hold hands together forever. :) Thanks for sharing your experience cherrysant.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
5 Feb 07
I think a lot of things change after marriage from what I see, it is sad, once some people get married they seem to think the other person no longer need the assurance of love, showing how much you care should never stop.
@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
I can see that lilaclady. There must a little bit or more of changes after marriage right? We must show how we love can make both person always in touch and always in love. They will show their partner, that love is all around. Have a nice day lilaclady!
@aroraasr (428)
• India
5 Feb 07
I dont think it is true as me and my hubby still hold each others hand whenever we are together or walking down the street and I feel we are very close to each other this way.
@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
6 Feb 07
Yeah that's rite! Hope you'll always in love forever n ever. Thanks aroraasr and have a nice day!
@Bangalorean (1282)
• India
5 Feb 07
I think you are mistaken or may be kidding. When in love you would always try to remain so, if the love is true or not infatuation. I fell in love and did hold my partners hand from the day one of my love saga and even after I got married to her, three years ago, continue holding hadn. I gives a feeling of assurance, that someone's besides you as you tread the walk of life.
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@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
Oo it's just my view from our lives today. Yes, the are certain people who do not share love and holding hands anymore. I dunno why. Maybe they had what they want. You are good lover Bangalorean. Good Luck!
@Katie88 (87)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I wouldn't have any idea. sorry.
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@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
If you get married or fall in love than you'll know. Anyway, thanks Katie88. have a nice day.