do you still long for your past relationship??
By jhoanee
@jhoanee (598)
Philippines
February 4, 2007 10:33pm CST
if you lose someone for me theirs no turning back. once it ended you can never have a second part. he had hurt you before for sure he can hurt you again. in love you should have the equation of to love and also be loved. i believe in unconditional love where only the one loves the other one, a one way street but you will be suffered on that situation. so i guess you have to move on with your life and search for the right one for you so that you will be happy. right one doesnt mean he/she is the perfect one instead you make that person right for you.
so how about you will u long for a past relationship or open to a new one?
6 responses
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
For me past is past. I've tried to my xbf so many chances but nothing happens, he still hurt me. And now i'm in a new happy relationship, i had realized he never worth for all my tears.
Past relationship or open to a new one? I guess, you should open to a new one if you give many chances to your past relationship.
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
yeah if you are open to the new one i know it will come in the right one. we also learned something from the past despite what happend one is it help us be stronger than before. i know its hard but what matter is you did try to forget sooner you will succeed.
@primecrimson (1388)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
I sometimes have some reminiscence of the old days with my exs. It's really nice to think of those moments once in a while because it always reminds you become a better person.
@alammujtehadi (77)
• India
7 Feb 07
i moved on from my relationships...nd m engaged nw...very much in luv evn to want my past to get bak to me...but i fear for reason at some point of time its all gonna get bak and haunt me...i wish i was more serious as a person than nd not go arnd doing things dat i shud'nt hav...nevr really undrstood wat emotions r...nw wen i do...i feel guilty....well...i wish my past never gets back to me..never ever....its not that a person who has hurt u once can hurt u again..but evn u hav hurt most of d people many times nd u do it again nd again..wud u want that person u r wid rite nw to leave u coz u hurt him more than once...???
@Lush_heidi (994)
• United States
5 Feb 07
before I met my hubby , I longed for the last love I had, but he didnt treat me well, was irresponsible and was just mean. Once I met my hubby, I saw I was longing for something that wasnt even there. AS my last love, wasnt going to change and had no goals for life. I made the right decision in my choice! :)
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
if you are happy now with your hubby all i can say is you really made the right choice. for me theres no point of turning back specially if the man really hurt you and constantly doing it even when you are still in the relationship. but i know that not all past is not worthy to be back if given a chance it just depend on the situation. thanks for your response.
@Starline (681)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Before you find the one that is right for you, a lot of people keep thinking about the ir last boyfriends even though the reason they broke up was because you were not right for eatchother. It's natural because it's still a real person, and you connect him with love in your mind because you once were happy together. So it is hard to let go, but once you do you never regret it because you can find your true love, and are wiser from the last relationship.
