Mom or Dad?

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When our folks separate, loyalty conflicts can tear a person apart. for instance, me. I have a dilemma. When a person is involved in the conflicts between his separated parents, it hurts the person being caught in the middle. I, for one, am seriously hurt and also confused everytime my mom and dad fights. of course, i'm caught in the middle. i can't pick one side because i know i will hurt either one's feelings. i feel sometimes agitated and constantly on guard, always keeping my real feelings secrets aand i'm really having a hard time to sort out how to please both parents. Sometimes i desire the company of mom, because she and i super close, i begin to feel guilty for being disloyal to my dad. Anyway, i'm currently living with my mom, while my younger brother is living with my dad. it's not that i chose this, but it's sort of part of their settlement. i'll be in my dad's house next month, while my bro stays with mom. i'm soo caught up.. i can't live like this. i want things to be just as they were.