Do i take my mylot friends too seriously

Aw, I think that's a nice thing! I try to answer discussions my friends have started, as much as I can too.

I'm pretty picky about my friends. I will answer yes to any request, but if the quality is not there I soon delete them. I much prefer quality friends over quantity. My list is growing, but those on it have all been very loyal and do take mylot seriously.

I feel the same and do the same. I always make sure to go through my friend's discussion. I always respond to their discussion. If I am not responding that's mean I don't have knowledge about that topic. Like lots of my friend post discussion about children and I don't take part in those discussion because I don't have children and I don't have knowledge about children related topic. My friends are also good at responding my discussion.

At first I would spend a lot of time reading my friends posts and I wasn't having the time top respond. Most of the posts I simply could not relate to or think of any response or comment. I wasn't achieving much. I have quite a few friends who I keep bumping into all the time ...we obviously have much in common...lol. While I certainly do'nt expect my friends to respond to everything I write, I also don't feel compelled to answer all of them all the time. I've selected my friends because I've been moved by what they have to say or how they express themselves. If someone requests me, I check them out to see if they are suitable...lol, cheeky me. I must admit, some of my first people I added because I liked their name or avatar. Some are good friends now, some have become inactive. It goes without saying that I always rate them a '+'. Some of my frinds are more outgoing than others, I try not to judge. I'm happy to sit in the background on some of my friends lists...sooner or later I can respond to them or them to me.

I try to respond to discussions my friends have started. BUt I try to only respond to discussions that mean something to me, or where I have something useful to add. So sometimes I have to search for other posts to answer, but I do give my friends' discussions first dibs.

yes..you do have a lot of commitment with your mylot friends...i also answer my friends posts whenever i get time.i hope to continue with tha same commitment with you and all of my friends:)

i always try to respond to each of my friends discussions but it is hard since i have so many. it takes a few days and spending all day to respond to each of my friends discussions. i try to do as many discussions from each friend as i can. that way i have already seen the ones i'm interested in or know something about. then i can go on to the next friend and so on. i also rate their discussions. i also rate everyone that responds to my discussions. i don't know any of them either but they're all my virtual friends as well. i don't think you take them to seriously as i do the same thing. i don't want anyone to feel left out and what do we have to lose. we're getting more points, getting paid, and sharing our opinions with our friends.

Thats good of u .. even i feel that .. but i have almost allmy frends who respond to atleast one discussion per day.. i rate them + .. and i dont think making frends over here would mean anything else .. u can help them just by posting messages and would be answered or replyied by the same .. what do u think??

Yes I do try and respond to my friends discussions, as you say it's not always that easy and it does take up a lot of time so I tend to put one day aside to my friends only. I must admit though that I haven't been on here much lately as real life seems to have got in the way but I shall endeavour to be a better friend and try to work harder on here. Did I say 'work'?? I think mylot is the furthest thing from work anyone could do, just sitting here having 'conversations' with friends, oh it's a great life!! And yes I do always rate each discussion plus each response, as I think that's really important.

It's nice if you can answer all of your friends discussions....but sometimes it's just impossible.I would rather not say anything than post something unrelated or stupid if I don't know nothing about the subject.I go through my friends discussions every day and if I find something I can answer to....I will....if not...I won't.Seems to me that most of my friends do the same.

I always answer my friends' discussions. Well, let me put it this way...I read every single discussion of my friends', but I don't answer if I have nothing important to say. I don't want to just answer just so I can get a "+" or a mark for a post. LOL

I really try to comment and rate all of my friends discussions. If i don't complete it I definately make a good stab at it. I have found a lot of people on mylot who i have a lot in common with and i find it easy to comment on their discussions and get to know them that little bit better. I like to think that they do the same to me in return.

I think you do just the right thing.I ,too, respond to my friend's discussions first.I try to respond to all of them, unless of course they don't want me to:-P .But if there is a topic of a kind that I can't relate to ,then I have to look for the others.Yeah,even though I don't know my friends very well, knowing how they ''think'' somehow gives me the impression that I am getting to know them a little better with every post of their's.