How would you prefer your life partner to be?

Dream guy/girl is just the same with an ideal guy/girl.. Ideal guy/girl doesn't exist.. but the real one really exist.. Since i was young I always put into my mind that its not good to set a standard of our life partner to be so that no frustrations. Since the more you expect, the more you are hurt.. So I just pray to the Lord that He will give a guy that is responsible, caring, loving, honest and faithful.. that's important. and we should follow what our heart beats not what our mind tells.

yeah your question is absolutely a point to ponder over. i always think of some beautiful angel entering my life... but dream is always a dream. u cannot turn it into a reality... she must be caring, lovable, gorgeous, honest, sensitive and should love me very much. but when real time comes we just fall into it, sometimes you are lucky, but sometimes you are not. i have a friend and i like her very much she is everything im looking for. but now she has become a dream as we are not in contact. so im afraid ill have to settle down auite away from my dream.... a v ery sad story of mine.

Well, here's my take on it. "Dream guy" or "dream girl" is just that....a dream. No one ever lives up to your imagination's expectations. In my mind, prior to meeting my husband, my "dream guy" was a doting, sensitive man who never got angry and wasn't afraid to show the world how much he loved me. What I got in reality was a sensitive man who doesn't dote on me, but shows me in so many other ways how much he loves me. He does have a temper, but it comes out rarely and never involves abuse in any way, shape or form. And though he isn't the kind of guy to walk around telling everyone how wonderful his wife is, he tells me everyday, and I guess I'd rather have that!