Is this person my friend? Does it diserve to be forgiven?
By manlynux
@manlynux (271)
Romania
February 5, 2007 1:47pm CST
Hello, i just wanted to ask your opinions about a person that i considered it my friend . we just had a fight, we almost started a physical fight... but i stayed away from that.
In the last few years, he was only telling lies, even if you asked him how does he feel.. he lied. He was lieing girls on the internet and one day i couldn't stand to watch how he is lied her and i added her to my yahoo list... i told her the truth about my ex-friend. When he heard that i told her the truth he came to me and he started threatening me ... he made calls to my mother and talked to her like an ungrateful person, he was shameless, my mother always treated him respectfully, when i heard how he talked to my mother i got pissed off, i went to him and i wanted to beat him up until he had no breath, i am not a violent person but i was pissed off, i always helped him when i could, i always forgive him when he made mistakes, but this time i will not forgive him.
Sorry if my English is bad ... please say your opinions about this ex-friend!
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3 responses
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
5 Feb 07
Being angry with you is one thing, disrespecting your mother is another. That is a big no-no. If he did it once he would do it again. You don't need a friend like that.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
5 Feb 07
You don't need a friend like that. Friends are suppose to help you, not hurt you.
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@manlynux (271)
• Romania
5 Feb 07
he did it twice , and the third time was when i went to talk to him (with beating him up in my mind) , he called my mother to tell her that i begged him not to call the police =)) , oh man ... he told a LIE again ... i went back to him and talked to him again.. i am waiting for wednesday to see what police is coming to my door =))
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@imsilver (1665)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
not only is this person not your friend he's not a very nice person. I think the line was drawn when he called you mother and disrespected her. Whatever happened was between you and him; it had nothing to do with her and he showed a serious lack of respect to the both of you by giving her a hard time for what you had done. Your better off without this person in your life (and so is your mother)
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@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
I know nothing about your ex-friend other than what you have said,so to make an opinion based on one side would not be fair by me.
I do think your choice of words by calling him your "ex-friend:" speaks volumes on his attitude and habits (and is the way I would have handled his behavior towards me).
If someone I had called a friend had treated others like this,he would no longer be my friend but just an aquaintence until s/he ruined that relationship .
