if you came to know ur partner has AIDS..what will you do?
@raj9433327675 (1241)
India
February 5, 2007 2:07pm CST
very very bad to hear that ur partner has AIDS.but its true for my best friend.he was an software engineer and his prtner also works for same company.they were friends and know each other from childhood.two years ago they decided to get married.then goes half a year my friend"s partner suddenly faced an accident.she was admitted to hospital.and there from her blood report we got this hopeless news.she got AIDS.both are now have breaks their nerves. i was also shocked by getting this report.now we came to know she was forced to go bed with her boss.and this cruel man have lots of addiction in his lady staff.my friend is now drug addicted and i couldnt handle him to go with such way.what will i do?please give some advice.
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@supra_guy (165)
• Romania
5 Feb 07
i know i can't get the disease by simply interacting with him so i would treat him just like any other person
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@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
6 Feb 07
very dishurting response.yet you have right to make own view.thanks.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
5 Feb 07
Advise your friend to go and get treatment for the AIDS. Your friend can not just sit home with this disease and do nothing.
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
5 Feb 07
First AIDS is not hopeless. I cared for my Wife for 13 years after her diagnosis and she was infected for 24.
Live your life and dont let the disease control you. Get what care you can and live life to the fullest while you can. This is a lesson to all to live life without fear and not allow tyranny to ruin you. She should have a part in criminal prosecution of this pervert. The Husband should support her.
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
11 Feb 07
Ya AIDS is not hopeless.You have too this experience to handle with this horrible deceise.Now how are ur wife? is she completely cured?Hope so.Thank you again for sharing ur experience with me.
@jtmblossom (470)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
there are some rehabilitation institution,you can refer her to them. Im sure her partner has AIDS also. Thats a dreaded disease.
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@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
8 Feb 07
i dont hink such rehabilitation institute.as they have decidedto stay with each other.is it not rehabilitation?i think it is.anyway thank you very much.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
short response but says it all. yep. it's better to be there for the person more because it's one of the moments when he/she needs you more each day.
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
that was a tough decision to make... hhhhhhmmmmmmm maybe i will find a way to cure her... or something else.... @raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
18 Aug 08
Yes tough decision to make.But have to take,as its situations demanding.
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@braveheartpt (3037)
• Portugal
6 Feb 07
You should stay beside your friends helping the best way you can, he needs someone that stays with him giving him forces to get over.
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
9 Feb 07
ya i am trying to do so.they have decieded now to saty with each other.thank you for ur response.
@clover779 (698)
• Portugal
6 Feb 07
Well, there is not mauch you can do, you can support, help, be a good companion, your love is probably the best you can give. No revenge possible and needed. Help her by staying with her, close by, helping and supporting. It is sad though.
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
7 Feb 07
ya.they need moral support and love too.i am agree with you.and thank you for ur comments.
@lotsa_cash (100)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
well the first thing to do is to be tested as well. from there, you will know what to do... kill or hate your partner (in case he infected you), or support and care for him (in case you're aids-free)...
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
8 Feb 07
they have tested.my friend dont have positive but his partner has the virus.they have decided to stay with each other.i think it is a great decision.is it not?
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
11 Feb 07
She got it from her Boss.As my friend and his partner work s for same company .My friend was unknown from this fact.I personally start to enquiry and came to know that thier supreme Boss is culprite.
@Slim_Shady (668)
• Romania
5 Feb 07
yeah ...somethimes i think about that ....
I don't know ... i'll probably spend the rest of my life loving her ( that's in my case )
I went to some bad experience with my girlfriend ....we had some little infections but we made it trow :)
Sooo ..the conclusion is that my girlfriend would tell me that she found out she has AIDS , i'll probably kiss her and ask her to marry me :)
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
6 Feb 07
thank you for your clear view.i appreciate ur thinking.i hope you have handled ur bad situation with ur girl friend.thanks again.
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@SUDHIR1965 (37)
• India
6 Feb 07
I would suggest that both of them face a physicatrist seprately and them let both of them have a common discussion with you so that you can understand the common points of view if they are really intrested in the future of their life.This all should be tried only if they both want to proceed futher together in their life. The best part will be is they both have wish to survive together. and try understand the situation and these situation has not been created .
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
6 Feb 07
thanks buddy.i really appreciate ur sugesstion of find out common view of both.hey this could be a good thing to do.i will try to know what are their common view for future.
@anantharajah (60)
• India
6 Feb 07
v cant do nothing after aids reaches us.. but v should not make them alone and v ve to b causual as v r in the earlier stages.. tats the way v can make him happy ........
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
8 Feb 07
ya we cant do nothing but take care of them.and i am trying to do so.they need some moral support.
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
7 Feb 07
ya u are right enough.i should same.but they are victims and they can realaize what are feelings now they feels.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
17 Aug 08
These things are allways very hard to hear as they have a huge impact on your life. Luckily there is good medication nowadays so that people with aids can life a rather normal and happy life. I've heard some great successes on them.
I see this is a pretty old discussion, so hopefully your friend feels a lot better now and has come to piece with the situation for as far as that's possible.
All the best!
@spitfire147 (468)
• India
6 Feb 07
If I ever came to know that my partner has AIDS , I would support her throughout and not even think about leaving her as most people do.
When you leave your partner after knowing she has AIDS , thats ridiculous.I think you should confront your friend and talk to him about it and make him feel good.
@it_online (66)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
I will going to love her more. I will try my best to find a medication for her disease and will also guide her in her everyday lives. To this kind of situation, she needs a real affection and attention.
