Please Advise my love life......
@perniepesole_V (4)
Philippines
February 5, 2007 10:49pm CST
I am currently at the point in a relationship where the woman I adore is pushing away. ( Yes, I spoke my intentions too soon). In following love tactics in being patient, sincere etc in demonstrating friendship and respect, she has begun seeing someone else very casually. We still talk and do things but I see her interest shifting. Is it the newness and the excitement of the new guy? I have been seeing her for almost a year. I want her to be the one. What should I do?
2 responses
@goddessno27 (17)
• United States
6 Feb 07
think of that saying about the bird. If you love something let it go if it comes back it was yours if it dont it never was. I know its hard but try to think of the other saying there are other fish in the sea: i always think that there is always better its hard to see now . keep your head up always smile and keep a positive attitude. cuz if you have the woe is me attatude its just unhealthy. this will be her loss and she will realize when its to late. nice guys are hard to come by you sound like one.
@Lush_heidi (994)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Welcome to my lot and I am hoping maybe some advice can help. I would back off somewhat, so that she sees she might miss you if your werent around all the time or calling.Perhaps she is just confides and wants to make sure her feelings are real. Also you could write a letter to her after a few weeks or not talking or seeing her and tell her you care and want a relationship, but you have to know her thoughts and feelings, and that if she doesnt want one with you to be honest and tell you.
So I would try time, and make her miss you. If its meant to be, it will work out, I wish you all the best!
