Significant others and strip clubs...
By Hockey_85
@Hockey_85 (94)
United States
3 responses
@draconess (650)
• Canada
6 Feb 07
I don't have a problem with my husband going to strip clubs occasionally with his friends. I know I can trust him, and that he looks forward to coming home to me after the show! I've also been to male strippers for a friend's birthday, it can be a fun bonding experience with the girls too!
@Hockey_85 (94)
• United States
6 Feb 07
See thats the thing though, I wouldn't mind if I knew he would do the same in my position. But he wouldn't, he says theres a difference. And there is no difference whatsoever, so until he feels that it's the same, I'm not going to be okay with him going.
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I don't think it's ok. It would make me feel really uncomfortable and really insecure, like I wasn't good enough for the other. He should want to stay home and look at my body, not a bunch of cheap girl's who he doesn't even know. I know a lot of guys do this, but when I am married that will not be acceptable. To me, it is almost the equivalent of cheating.
@Hockey_85 (94)
• United States
6 Feb 07
See with me, I don't consider it cheating. It's not an issue of trust, I know he wouldn't do anything. But, I know if I wanted to go watch a bunch of dudes dance, and let them shake their junk in my face.. he would freak out. I'm torn on what to do/think/say.
@Petrakkos (310)
• Cyprus
6 Feb 07
i think is perfectly healthy for males and females to go out to strip clubs so that they will have some fun with their friend-monotony kills a marriage and also kills the relationships-this will help the relationship of the couple to last and last-till they both are loyal to each other-watch only and not be unfaithfull
