An affair to a married man...

Philippines
February 6, 2007 1:40am CST
Got a friend here who has an affair with a 40 yr old married man, while she's only 27. I do always tell her again and again the consequences of this kind of relationship. Well,i wanna gather more opinions from others based on the subject matter coz until now i won't stopped convincing her that what they're doing is not really a good idea and now she's in deep trouble coz the wife was almost caught them up!...pls help...I need your opinions..anyone?
2 responses
@sidoney (1033)
• Jamaica
6 Feb 07
Those men never leave their wife even if the say so and if they do then its alway in the back of your head that it mite happen to you your friend should not get in the way of marriage unless she should like some one to get in the middle of hers I bet he tell her all the bad about her but he never leaves and never will trust me I know
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I could tell you a long story, but I'll make it brief. 4 years ago we agreed we would get a divorce, I got mine. And even though he is living in my home, he still hasn't filed a single paper and our lives are miserable. He still completely supports his (ex)wife and claims it is because of his kids. I wouldn't have a problem with this if I wasn't completely supporting him. I am not aloud to have anything to do with any of his family. Although, we are living together, he is still living 2 separate lives.
• United States
6 Feb 07
Very sad but common problem. As far as the affiar it is wrong. Your friend should realize that if the man will cheat on his wife he will cheat on your friend if they ever was more than affair. As far as the age difference goes I believe age is just a number. My husband is 25 years older than me and we have been married three years on valentines day. He is the best thing that ever happen to me, but I did not get him in a affiar.lol. Hope this helps you. Good luck.
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Yes, your right! Congrats on your wed. anniversary anyway.... :-)