age and maturity. I think that men are not more immature than women

It's a misconception on both sides. The "girls are more mature" generally only applies to adolescents. Girls grow up faster, emotionally, than boys do, therefore, they tend to prefer older boys and even men because they are more stable. However, in early adulthood, I would say the maturity level is about even. There are many people of both genders who are only interested in the "party" scene during their college/young adult years. However, there are also many people of both genders who are not, however due to the fact that many people see what is "popular" to do and think everyon is doing it. The weak-minded participate and the individuals think that people their own age are beneath them and so they date older people, thinking they can't find like-minded people of the same age. It's all just a matter of looking in the right places and getting to know a person for who they are instead of what their age is.

Let me pitch in my 2 cents. I prefer men who are a few years older than me, and I've had that preference since I was in my teens. I don't know, but I find them more responsible, mature, experienced, and I feel a sense of security and stability around them. Not that I consider all of them as such, but generally, they project that kind of impression on women. There are also a handful of younger men who thinks mature and are responsible for their age, but most men tend to linger and enjoy their youth, an act which is often misconstrued as a way of refusing to grow up. But I believe it all boils down to, 'to each his own'. There are younger men who prefers older women, older women who likes younger men to pamper and take care of, and vis-a-vis.

i really cant say anything about this but yes i think you are very much right and this kind of things do happens.. normally girls are of low age then the groom and they say that its the perfect match. normally its kind of right too. girls really look for the mature person and i think my girls also look that in me but obvious i am not elder then her so i think i sometimes behave like a kiddish. well i am trying to be more mature and strong and trying to kill me kidding nature and everything and trying to be more appealable. i hope ill be sucess in that. Regards, Sam

Not all men are the same! Maybe you're a white fly, a very rare case of mature man! I don't think to myself as a mature man for my age, and i think no one of my friends is!