whose is side will you be: family or husband?
By garetamor
@garetamor (55)
Philippines
February 6, 2007 8:43am CST
whenever theres a disagreement between your family and husband/wife? do you take your spouse's side? or your family's side? i know its hard to take sides since both are very important to you. nor it is hard to say that you go with whoever has the right point. but what about the other party's point? or you just let them deal it on their own.
2 responses
@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
6 Feb 07
It is very hard to take any of the side as both of the sides are imp in your life but in such a case i will be towards the elders side as most of them will be correct in their point and i later calm down my spouse we are alone and make my spouse to think about the matter in a right way and ask him to realise the importance of the elders in the family and some times i take the correct side according to the arguement and sometimes i leave the matter to their sides as them to realise by themselves.
@mishald (176)
• India
6 Feb 07
thats a hard one. whomever u side, the other will get hurt. letting them sort it out on their own means u dont really care. i would say side the person u feel is right. then try and explain y u siding with that person to the other party. don't let emotions get in the way of your deciaion
