My love life..... need help : (

India
February 6, 2007 12:39pm CST
Hi guys, I know its kinda weird talkin about my love life and all but here it goes... I will tell u guys in brief ; I met her 8 yrs back when, we are family friends... we r in school now, i started calling her a few months ago, everything was goin smoothly, she knows i love her (her frnd told her, i didnt propose). then some great politics took place with me, and here where the problems began ---- 1 day i called her and she said their were very bad rumours about us and when i asked about it she said she wouldnt be able to tell it and asked me to ask her friend and she also asked me not to ring her at home anymore.... i did so and even her frnd refused to tell me anything.... days passed...... 1 day, one of my frieds rang her up and asked her what was the matter, she said that her friend (the same person) had fought with her asking her not to talk to me as their were many rumours.... bad ones ! (no one even knows what it was ! atleast i dont! ) then he asked her if she still had any problems wid me and she said no... few days after that, our families 2gether went on a family trip and there she acted as if nothing had happened at all though i wasnt talkin to her... The question is ... what should i do ? i feel so hopeless....... I mean i can't go and ask her "hey whats up !" or "hey whats the problem?" as she asked me not to call her anymore....but IF she doznt love me, she would have dont something the day she knew i was in love with her, the day her frnd told her about this, she was all cool and smiling..... Now guys... i have completely no idea and i request you ppl to help me out....what the hell should i do ???? its true love so dont ask me to dump her plz.... i would dump myself rather than dumping her....... and try to think of yourself in the same situation....
2 responses
• United States
6 Feb 07
That's what the forum boards are for! I think it's something you have to confront her on and just simply ask her what the rumor was. It seems like she's being fake or has some other guy in the wings waiting for her. It also sounds like she's lying since no one is fessing up on what these rumors are. It sounds like a ploy to get you away from her. You mentioned you two are family friends so she has no choice but to see you when the families get together. That'll probably be the only time where she'll be happy with you.
• India
6 Feb 07
naah... neither is possible... cuz' 1st of all if she had probs wid me she would have told me 1on 1 and 2ndly she is up with no other guy... it might be cuz of her parents.... they are a bit strict
@cungcung (70)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 07
My suggestion is first you must give her some time, time until the rumours end or at least decrease, and until she ready to talk to you. Just make sure you let her know that you want to help to clear the rumours and every problems she has with you (if you really have) If you want to know she loves you or not, you have to ask her directly. That's what woman wants. The direct question, not just hear it from someone else