Do you think people changed after getting married?
By kutchi
@kutchi (12320)
Pakistan
9 responses
@vickyl (54)
• India
6 Feb 07
ya pepole will change after the marrige becoz they busy with there lfe,and they want to earn more money ,to secure the future of themselves antd there there children,after marrige they cutt off there old frnds,they just look fwd. to there resposibilties and that it!!!!!!!!!
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@sunflowergirl (3064)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Feb 07
one should not expect the other to change..i feel accepting the other person as they are is more important and good..but after marriage life does changes......
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
7 Feb 07
I don't think you should expect a person to change. But change is a normal accurence that happens in human beings. But don't think that you are going to change a person after you marry them. That is not going to happen. When you take the person you accept them as they are.
@skyblade (482)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Yes, people are always changing. The important thing to remember when you are getting married is to remember what you love about the person and realize that yes the person will change, but so will you, so will the marriage, and hopefully it will all change for the better.
@thunderofsins (738)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Most definately! Life is different before marriage and after marriage and that change forces the person to change.
Even just little changes take place. Things like your best friend no longer being #1, or calling someone to say "hey, i'm gonna be late" when you're stuck in traffic.
I think both my husband and I have become a lot more patient since we got married...and we've also both gained weight. :) Him from my cooking and me from not going to the club and dancing every weekend and now from pregnancy.
I think we're both also a lot calmer and more family-focused. Our friends are still important to us, but our family is so much more important.
I think the changes we've seen so far in both ourselves and eachother since we got married have been good ones.
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@mariner68 (1276)
• India
6 Feb 07
people do tend to change as they have added responsibilities when a husband or wife comes into their life. when they get a child, the responsibilities increase and they change even more. and thats human nature.
@vampirestonez (1181)
• Pakistan
7 Feb 07
Well people do change after getting married, I think it's the effect of all the responsibilities that come upon you that makes you changed.