A friend or a user...
By justalone
@justalone (93)
Philippines
February 6, 2007 5:58pm CST
I have this friend for almost 2 years now. We always everything that we have but lately I noticed that he is always in trouble both financially and physically and worst he uses me as an excuse to other. Should I distance from him or what...?
2 responses
@yaneeps (122)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
i suggest that you talk to your friend and tell him that you do not like being used. just because you're friends does not give him the right to abuse you or the friendship. if he needs help, he can just ask you straight out, and you'd help him the best that you can. but beyond that, he must not do anything that is detrimental to you or the friendship.
@justalone (93)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
Yeah I guess you're, I'll do that... our friendship should not go to waste.
@angelmae (351)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
I advice you not to. If you really treat him as a friend, and if you are true to him, then don't leave him alone with his troubles. I assure you all of your sacrifices for him will pay off someday. and there's nothing wrong in helping a friend in need.