Would you throw a party?

I want the party just before I die so I can enjoy saying goodbye for a while to all the people I love. Ive always loved a get together wouldnt want to miss the last one. Not everyone gets that chance to know when though. Not quiet ready for that invitation yet, got a few more ambitions.

My wife is the same way. She says she'd rather be remembered with laughter than with mourning. LOL She wants a barbecue "Fried Green Tomatoes" style, but i told her that part was out of the question. No, I don't think that wanting people to celebrate your life is a bad thing. Sure, they'll be tears, but I, and she, and apparently you, would rather be remembered with love and laughter than the last memory being of pain and darkness.

I live my life with happiness I don´t want people crying, they must remember me as I was, always with a smile and making people laughing. I told my wife, that I would like to be buried listening to Forever from Stratovarius.

Well i can understand your feeling sin ths n u can affoerd to say ths coz ur hgoin to a better palce ...u are leaving all the hatred n enemity in ths world n goin far....but u are being selfish heer as people who love u canot do that n u ahve not thought abt them..

I think this is a good idea. I don't want my loved ones morning over me, exspecaily when I will be having a time of my life in Heaven. I want them to remember the good time and celerbrate my happiness with me.

maybe not punk rock kinda party lol likewise somewhat with a more happy tone. but then again, i think your loveones should also be allowed to mourn for you. so i guess, it'll be on my wish list but it really is up to them how they will deal with my loss :)

I like this idea. I want an old fathion wake. That is where we prop me up against the jukebox just like in the song. I want lots og good old country music. I think I have lived a good life and I want people to be happy for me. I am in a better place and happy.