what qualities would draw you to choose a person whom you decide to marry

For myself, I would like to meet someone who is outgoing, because I am really shy. That would help us to work together, because he could help me with my shyness. In all other ways, though, I would like for my true love to feel a lot like I do about life, because I need someone who feels as intensely as I do about love and people and being romantic with each other, or he is very likely not going to be able to give me what i need to be happy. I do need a lot, but I give constantly, because I would do anything to make someone that I love smile or laugh, anything to make them happy. I really ache to meet someone who feels the same as I do. But it would help if he were the opposite of me in that he would be really not shy.