to love more or to be loved more
By hazely
@hazely (27)
Philippines
February 7, 2007 4:48am CST
Loving can be very risky. Sometimes, you love too much but the other person doesn't feel as much or the other person really loves you which can give you a sense of security but you don't feel as much as well.
which would you rather choose, the one who loves so much and the one being loved so much without you feeling the same towards the other person?
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3 responses
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
love is a relationship. two persons are involved (if it's more than that, it's not LOVE anymore), you formed a TRIANGLE already and that's a big problem. two people in love is a gift, a mutual feeling, a give-and-take process, a 50-50 scenario, on the same ground...ha ha ha
@mathurvarun (980)
• India
7 Feb 07
i think to be loved more by a person is much better than to love more a person..a person who loves u very much will take care of u throughout the life rather than the person who doesnt have any feelings for u...the person who loves you want to spend life with u and know u much better than the person whom u love
@zavebe (122)
• United States
7 Feb 07
Personally, Im greedy and would prefer being loved more than I love them. Pampering fun, there ^.^
But in all honesty, I think all relationships start off uneven. One loving more than the other. And over time you balance out. at moments in a relationship it could even switch, as peoples moods switch and their thoughts shift.
I've found that the key to a good relationship is communication. Not assuming that the other knows, but expressing your love openly and honestly. Even if it can cause temporary pain, in the long run it helps you smooth over bumps easier.
